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Is it normal to not feel in the mood? Through out my pregnancy i haven't had the urge to have sex but I let my partner "do me" even if I don't want to. It feels good & all but I thought pregnancy was supposed to make you crazy horny & I've felt the same through my pregnancy I feel no different than being not pregnant & I've had no symptoms at all ! I'm 6 months today & belly still soft
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& this is your 1st baby? I'm so sorry you feel that way he should understand your going through a lot of hormonal changes & support you. You shouldn't feel bad about your body think of it as A beautiful creation happening cause of your baby. Embrace it & embrace yourself
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I got it all and I think that's what helped my fiance understand - he saw all the different moods. My breasts grew (he loved but I hated - I was already a D) and in the beginning he couldn't keep up with my sex drive. It looked like pregnancy was going to be awesome for us. Now? I have zero sex drive, I hate my body, and I'm so uncomfortable with the idea of having sex it depresses me. I actually left the room crying when he tried not too long ago. He's realizing that this really is a roller coaster for me.
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I get worried about that too I tell him "your poking the baby !" & than he goes slow than fast again smh men & as for my sex drive I guess when he doesn't expect it is when I'm turned on the most but it immediately goes away quickly cause either I'm hungry or there's nowhere to "do it" lol
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7157499 tn?1411821385
It can either make your hormones go up or down for sex. My sex drive died at first, and just started to come back. Im currently 31 weeks.
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I want to but then I don't afraid of hurting the baby Lol I know it sounds weird but this is my first Sooo idk
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Not only that the immense pressure down there he can't crank up the motor so fast if you catch my drift lol
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Yea I let him take over once in A while but I've gotten "prude" as he says & I just laugh & on top of that my breasts haven't grown ! Where are these massive boobs every pregnant woman gets I have yet to even get an actual inch my nipples are just dark & small. I'm an A cup
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7732297 tn?1397446837
I havent had sex in about 7weeks i feel bad for my bf but i seriously cant make myself pretend to want it when i dont. My bf gets upset at times but he understands that im going through alot right now and just need some support:)
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Actually I haven't had sex in 4 weeks just haven't felt like it plus taking antibiotics so I can't , I feel bad for my bf but idk what to do I can't never get in the "mood" lol
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