frazzled and confused help ?

[hollywoodlove29]

This may be long , but I wanna get as many details in as possible so in advance sorry for the long-Ness ! Okay , so on October 25 I had my reg , heavy flow 5-6 day period . On Nov 4 & 18 I had unprotected sex . The 27th of Nov I spotted kinda a brownish pinkish slightly red for 2 days . Not even enough to fill a fourth of a pad (I don't use.liners) my cycles are 33 days n normally right on the money each month . Dec 30 I should of had my normal.period but the 26 th I started spotting again , this time it was less , and it was a darker brown . But not red at all . I took a home preg test the 10th of Dec and again Jan 2 they were both neg . Idk what to call a symptom ... but I have been feeling nauseous on and off , especially if I haven't eaten in a few hours . I can't sleep very good at all at night . I'm tired n worn out . I haven't had a reg full 5 day heavy period , only spotting as told above . I get annoyed very easily , especially with my dad (why him idk maybe its because we live together) I feel sick when I smell the crabs at my work . I have gained about 3 lbs . And I have been feeling bloated for about 2 months straight . I only poop (sorry tmi) like every 2 or 3 days . My belly button looks darker like I tanned it lol and its got a same colored line coming from it . (I'm a thick girl so its hard to tell if there's a baby bump) however my stomach feels like it just sticks out (again. Like I'm bloated) I have got baby on the brain and am.literally thinking about it all the time . Is it possible I'm preg ? Or is this all in my head ? I'd really like some help or opinions before I have to see a doc (I have no insurance so it will be expensive and if its not important I go , I wanna save my money) has anyone else had neg tests and been preg ? Thanks for all your help and sorry for the length again :)

[agrell]

Some women cant get positive urine test and they only way they find out is through blood test and ultrasound...i hope you get your baby wish good luck honey

[sehale]

Though it's rare, you can be pregnant and get a negative urine pregnancy test. The best thing to do is get a blood test at the doctor. You can try a free clinic. If your pregnancy test comes back positive, apply for Medicaid. (That's what I did).

It is, however, possible for it to be in your head. About four months before I got pregnant I got it in my head that I was pregnant, but I wasn't. I had it in my head so much that I started getting symptoms.

As I said before, the best thing to do is get a blood test done to be sure. Good luck to you.

[kerriekab]

I was pregnant and didnt get a positive test until 12 days past ovulation. I'd suggest taking another test just to double check, if it is still neg then go to the docs. You are experiencing many pregnancy like symptoms so if you are not pregnant there might be something else wrong so it may not be a wasted trip anyway.

Good luck.