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I know its to late but people are saying I'm crazy . because I have a 10 month old and now I'm 7 weeks pregnant.  I know I can do it but I'm getting so Much negative. Its really putting me down
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Its not as bad as you think daughter is 13 1/2months older than my son and it just makes them closer as they grow up. It can be tough at times but don't let people get you down if you know you can do it don't let them make you think any less or feel bad about being pregnant already. I definitely know what you are going through.
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I have an almost 4 year old & one on the way , & I possibly couldn't see myself having another child . Although my daughter is becoming such a big girl & I can't believe how fast the years go . Just look at it as a gift(: your kids will still have time to grow & play together . It's too late now to think about whether or not those people are right about you getting pregnant too soon . You're already pregnant & keep those negative people out ya ear hun.
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Just look at your baby for comfort. If they're happy and you know you're a good mom, then that's all you need. You'll be fine people always have something to say.
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5624774 tn?1374284525
I have a 4 year old and a 10 month old and am 28 weeks with my 3rd. I look really young too so I get tons of looks and rude comments. I just ignore them. My husband and I live on our own and pay our own bills and take care of our girls so it's none of their business. You'll do just fine momma.
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Tell people to mind thier business are they taking care of your children.?! Uhhhh i think not so go eff off. Im 5 months pregnant and my son is going on 9 months my husband and i couldnt be more happier. Enjoy your little ones and pay nobodys no mine especially if they not taking care of them
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@Kmac91 my mom uses that all the time. But yeah unless they're the ones supporting you or your children then what they say doesn't matter.
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Are they paying your bills or raising your children?  Let them know that as well.  Opinions are like a**holes we all have one and they all stink.
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8060064 tn?1402249559
I got pregnant with my 2nd daughter when my daughter was 10 months. I also have twins who are 7 years. My husband and I have great jobs we love our children and yes it gets hectic but our babies keep us busy.  I don't care what other people say,  they're not the ones doing it.  And some people just want to complain because they have nothing else to make them happy in life.
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10161345 tn?1488138652
Ignore them. There's absolutely nothing wrong with babies being close together. If you know you can handle it don't let them drag you down! To me that's like calling someone crazy or putting them down over having twins: utterly ridiculous. Millions of women in history and presently  have done what you're doing now and have been perfectly fine and capable. :) some people just can't get out of their own little heads!
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8364464 tn?1408312392
As long as you are a good mom and able to support your children it's no one's business.  No one's has a say so in your personal life unless it's causing harm to someone.  Take it easy and don't listen to the negative things people say and enjoy your pregnancy (: Congrats and good luck
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Brush them off your shoulder. People will be jerks. I'm 21 with a baby girl who's going to be 2 in October. I am 18 weeks pregnant and dues in January. People will have your back and people will not. There's nothing better then to prove them all wrong. If you know you can do it then do it. Don't let people get to you because being pregnant makes you vulnerable. You don't want one rude ads mofo to ruin your decision hunny.
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