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Super Mad!

Ughh So i went to go eat with my mom at a taco stand and this old guy pissed the heck out of me that i literally have contractions!!!>:( He Started Judging Me Because im 19 and pregnant!
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I was 19 when I had my daughter. Strangely enough I get more condescending looks now that I'm 25 and having my second. People are shocked when I tell them I have a 6 year old. It's like they expected a 19 year old waitress to get knocked up, but it's absurd to expect that same waitress with a kid will be a high school teacher with a mortgage six years later.
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4983320 tn?1378402268
My mom had me at 19 and has always been an amazing mother. You will do great with that mindset, and congratulations! :)
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It ***** it gets me all emotional cause i know being pregnant doesnt make me a bad person through out my life i suffered alot with a lot of harsh things and i lost my virginity to my husband which is the father of my daughter i mean i know i could've done things later in life but i mean planning on having a baby wasnt in our plans it just happen she's a blessing to me ill be induced on tuesday freaks the heck out of me but i know everything ill do in the future will be good things for the best of my daughter :,(
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im 17, i get dirty looks, snug comments, stares.. just ignore people who look down at you, im sure youl do great!
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im 17, i get dirty looks, snug comments, stares.. just ignore people who look down at you, im sure youl do great!
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4983320 tn?1378402268
I feel like I will be judged because although I will be 23 when this baby is born and I'm married, I don't look my age and I look really young. Just don't let it get to you. I know it's easier said than done. :/ I can't stand judgemental people!
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Try not to stress too much Hun, its not good for you or baby. People need to mind their own business though! I hate people who judge! It happens to me all the time cuz i look like I'm 16 lol but you have to let it go
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