can't stop crying :'(

[SoConfusedRightNow]

So I worked today and decided to break the news to a few work friends, my manager walked past and I asked if she'd like to know too and she ripped my head off and said no I had a miscarriage last week and stormed off and wont speak to me.. I know its a hard thing to go thru, I've had one while my bestfriend was pregnant.. but now I just feel horrible and I cant stop crying :'( I didnt know she was even pregnant and now I feel like I don't deserve my baby :'(

[shortimama123]

I had 2 miscarriages and both times I had friends who were having sucessful pregnancies. I never got mad at them I was sad for myself but still excited for them. Maybe a lil jealous but I never took it out on them. She's ovbiously having a hard time dealing. And how were you supposed to know? Dont be too upset. I can understand ur guilt but you can't control that she miscarried or her bad attitude toward you.

[shyloveskai]

Its not your fault shes goin through that. Heck, its not even her fault. Give it time when around her. But stay excited! Your gonna be a mommy!

[jsulliva15]

When I had my miscarriage they sent me back out into a waiting room full of pregnant people with ultrasounds in their hands all happy. Yes I was devestated we were trying to get pregnant and I was 11weeks along but It was good for me cuz I realized yes I may be experiencing something bad but when the time is right in can try again. Don't ever feel bad and like you don't deserve your baby because someone is sad they lost theirs she is still going through a grieving process

[SoConfusedRightNow]

Thankyou so much :) when I had my miscarriage while my bestfriend was pregnant I just was still happy for her.. I think of different to some people.. it happens for a reason.

[Angel8890]

Awww, hun, i'm sorry... Sending you hugs :-)  its not your fault, and you shouldn't feel bad about anything. You're so blessed to be pregnant, and you should enjoy it and be excited. I've had a best friend who had a miscarriage...and our friendship ended, because she couldn't handle it, that i'm pregnant and excited, and she was not... She was totally bashing me and putting me down. Its sad, but nothing I can do. Some people
Just can't really cope with it. :-(  I know its hard to lose a baby, but it should never be let out on someone else, and make them feel bad. Try to talk to your manager if it makes you feel better... So both of you can be free of whatever is going on inside. Its better to solve it soon, so it can be out if the way. :-)  good luck hun, you can do it. And cheer
Up, you got a precious little baby growing inside of you ;-) that's awesome. congrats!!

[Bfranz537]

You have every right to be excited!! Being pregnant is a big deal and its a beautiful thing.  Dont let her situation make you feel guilty about anything. Its not your fault sweetie.

[SoConfusedRightNow]

It just makes me feel guilty for being excited..

[Bfranz537]

Dont.beat yourself up over that, how was you.suppose.to know.something like that if she never told you. Your baby is a blessing so dont ever let someone else make you.feel like you.deserve anything less. As far as your manager maybe you can pull her to the.side and tell.her sorr for.her loss and that you had no intentions of hurting her feelings. She is probably going.through a tough time.right now. So dont take it personal.

[kmommy2b]

Dont be upset! You didnt know.. im sure she will realize that and is just going thru alot of emotions from losing the baby. Id let it go for a few days and when you think its a good time just apologize and say you didnt know what she was going thru. Just because she had a miscarriage doesnt mean you dont deserve a baby. Try not to stress and enjoy your new good news!