I was about,25 weeks by the time my husband could feel, but my baby also likes to stop the moment he tries so that probably didn't help any
I could feel at 18 other people at 20 and could see at about week 21-22 but only the odd one and you had to be paying attention around week 24 could clearly see kicks
My husband felt the baby two weeks after me, at 22 weeks. We could see some kicks at 23 weeks.
If the baby kicks hard enough yes but not all the time sometimes I myself can only feel the baby & im 23wks