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So im asian and my bf is black.. my mom fears if i have a girl, the baby wouldnt come out looking good.. i think thats so mean to say.. i look very spanish noone can ever tell im asian. I kno my baby is gonna come out beautiful.. should i even be paranoid of my moms opinion? Sometimes i reflect on it and cry about it... hate to sound weak.. what shall i do?
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The fact that you even say "I don't like Asian" is sad and implies you think "looking Asian" isn't good. Sorry but I hate how some people are ashamed of what they are.  What's wrong with looking Asian? Embrace it. I'm Mexican and I hear people say stuff like "but I don't look Mexican" like OK, what does that mean? You look better cuz u don't "look" something?
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You're welcome hun! :) Can't wait to hear what gender your baby is!! How far along are you?
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Omg I cnt believe ur aunty did that.  All babies are beautiful
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That's so rude of her!!! My aunt showed up to the hospital an hour after I gave birth to my son and took one look at him and Said he was the ugliest baby she has ever seen and walked out of the room. If I could have climb out if that bed quick enough I would have beat the crap out of her. Ignore anyone else's Opinion their opinions Don't matter
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973741 tn?1342342773
Ahh, don't stress over this.  All babies are beautiful hon.  And your baby will always be beautiful to you!  Try to ignore that comment from your mother.  It's unfair and unkind.  hugs
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Kanamotaya20 .. Omg im completely teared up reading your comment.. thank you so much !
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