Im really confused, im not sure whether i am pg, home tests say neg.. Iv had spotting for a few days now and today i noticed big drop of dark brown mucus and when i wiped pinky/reddy blood, but nothing more (sorry tmi).. what is this? Is this a period or spotting?? iv had nothing since and no cramping today, although i had cramping bad over the weekend with pinky spotting.. Also my cervix is low, extremely soft, wet and quite open.. what does this mean?? Any info id appreciate :) thanks