positive pregnancy tests days before period now i am bleeding a scared!!

[JessaBear2913]

took a pregnancy test 4 days before my period it came up positive also took one yesterday morning and also positive. my hubby was so excited. Took another this morning still positive but right now have cramps and started bleeding... period was going to start tomm but we found out i was pregnant now what should we think a miscarrage??
right now I started bleeding with a few cramps but they are not that bad. Last valentines day i found out i was pregnant we were so excited ended up having a ectopic pregnancy at 9 weeks, got low dose chemo and it was over. Now we find out i am pregnant again and doesn't look good.I am hoping it isn't a MC but i am thinking it is. I am so sad right now and it is yet again valentines day. what a treat. ANYONE ever have this happen and still be pregnant?

[JessaBear2913]

thank you both for the nice comments made me feel so much better (Really) it did :-)
I guess I will just wait till I stop bleeding and take another test. I also hope for the best. Been crying all day so far on and off.

[alaysha]

I'm so sorry for all your uncertainty. My first pregnancy resulted in miscarriage and I found out during a routine ultrasound on Valentines Day (scheduled it that day because was supposed to be special) that the baby had stopped growing. I too was supposed to have been 9 weeks. Had to get a d&c and then found out 6 weeks later I was pregnant again. At 5 weeks I started bleeding worse than a period with cramps, had thar continue for 5 weeks and ended up with a healthy daughter who just turned 3 last December. Bleeding doesn't always mean you'll loose the baby and I know that the waiting to know what's going on is going to be the worst.

[angela418]

Awwwww.....if it's any condolence, Valentine's Day has a terrible memory for me, too.  My husband had a seizure on V-Day 6 years ago and wound up in the hospital for 5 days with what they think was meningitis.  So, we decided this year to call it "Vertical Day" - as in, my husband is vertical another year and not laid up in a hospital!  LOL  I'm so sad for you, though, because I know trying to conceive can be a long painful journey.  And, like I said before, bleeding can happen in early pregnancy - you could test again in a few days and see if maybe you are still pregnant - it's still a possibility - but I don't want to give you false hope, either.  I'm so sorry you are going through this again on what's supposed to be a fun romantic holiday.  

[JessaBear2913]

thanks for the info , Just stinks cuz its valentines day once again and I am loosing another baby at least this one didn't get to 9 weeks. I just feel so sad and keep crying.. Called my man at work and told him the news..i have to be home alone all v-day till 8pm and am going through this once again..what a day so far :-(  

:-( my head is spinning

[angela418]

Bleeding is possible in early pregnancy, but honestly it sounds like when I had a chemical pregnancy.  I took a test and it was positive, then 6 days later I got my period.  The egg was basically fertilized but didn't implant, so I got my normal period after all.  It was a strange cycle for me anyways...usually I have a 30-35 day cycle, but that one was 54 days!  Four months later, I got pregnant successfully and I am now 23 weeks pregnant with number 2 so don't give up hope!  The road is rocky for many who are trying to conceive, but in the end, it's worth it!  Stay positive and good luck to you!  Medhelp is always here for you!