Help me get pregnant?

[anonomous27]

Soo im 20, and have been trying to get pregnant for over a year now with no luck, my fiance is 32 with a child, nothing wrong with him.. I have tried tracking ovulation, started taking b12 and folic acid, no birth control and my periods are fairly normal.. any advice??

ohh and btw i have no insurance right now, so its not that easy to just go to the doc to see whats wrong..

[tmmooreusmc]

I didn't pee afterwards. Not sure if that's a legitimate reason but it seemed to work 3 times

[KTowne]

Have you tried OPK's, temping? Anything to track ovulation? And if you've been trying for over a year it usually does warrant a visit to a specialist. How are you sure there's nothing wrong with him? Things can happen at any time, just because he has a child already doesn't mean he's fine. Also, you will have MANY, many hospital visits while pregnant, so insurance is a must while pregnant, I waited to conceive my second to make sure I had solid insurance before. Hospital costs will add up quick! Good luck hun!

[Shaunypawny]

I was in a similar situation my partner is 31 and im 21. We where trying for 18months and I had given up and I thought ill chill out about it an not think about it as it was near Christmas I thought I'd enjoy the holiday. And I got pregnant just before (I found out when in Jan) Christmas. I will say the thing which may of helped me cant be for sure, but after having sex I lifted my legs in the air for about 20mins lol only on the last 2 times we had sex before I conceived so cant say it helped but u can always try. Iv read it helps his little swimmers move up your cervix. Dont worry or stress about it to much just enjoy your sex life and try not let it control your lives because it will become more of a chore which it shouldn't be. All the best hun and keep them legs in the air :-)

[stephaniehaith]

Stop trying. Enjoy sex. You stress yourself out trying.