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Sometimes I could just punch my boyfriend in the face! I'm feeling very insecure about my body because its getting pretty round. And I was commenting on how much weight he lost over the summer and how he looks good. We have a family dinner in a week and I said everyone is going to comment on how much weight you lost. Then he was like ya but they are going to comment on how fat you are now. (His family doesn't know i'm pregnant yet). I feel so disgusting now. Like a big fat blob.
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Yeah my bf does it sometimes too. He finds the worst angles to take a picture of me and I look like a hippo. But once I get upset he tells me that I'm not a hippo and don't look like a cow etc etc lol just tell him he needs to stfu and be more supportive.
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Its just the context of how he said it. Not that my bump was big but I was like a blubber butt or something. I was not impressed and haven't talked to him all damn day nor do I intend to until he applogizes!
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Couldn't be worse.I was in the grocery store an some lady walked up to me an handed me a card for a belly wrap an a weight loss paper I told her I was pregnant an she said oh well you should call after you have the baby..
I felt soooo huge I cried in the grocery store
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4983320 tn?1378402268
You're pregnant, you're supposed to get big. Guys are dumb sometimes.
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Please punch him in the face, lol.
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On one hand he should not have said that.... don't ever say that lol. My boyfriend learned real quick to not even mention the size of my belly. But on the other hand take it with a grain of salt. Guys are insensitive always will be. They don't understand how insecure we are especially during pregnancy.
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4898758 tn?1373910879
It's Going To Happen. I Get Told Im Huge Or Fat. But I Take It As  A Compliment. Id raRathEr Be Gaining  Weight And Healthy Then Being Underweight While Pregnant.
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