tmi, but help please!

[LlamaLlover]

Okay this is a little tmi (even for me). About 3 days ago my bf and I had sex (vaginal only). It had been a few weeks since my morning sickness was killing my sex drive. Well we got a little rough. Well while we were having sex, out of nowhere I felt a very sharp pain near my butthole. It was weird because we were having vaginal sex. Well now its been 3 days and my butthole has been hurting pretty bad and today when I tried to go number 2, it was extremely painful and when I wiped I saw a little bit of blood. I decided to take a look at it and it looks like a swollen vein near the bottom of my butthole. What's going on???? Help please!!! Could he have caused me to get a hemorrhoid?? From vaginal sex???

[LlamaLlover]

Oh okay. Thanks for the advice, really appreciated :)

[crisram]

The doc will just prescribe you some ointment. There's really nothing they can do. I still have the same damn hemorrhoid from when I had my son three years ago. It seems to shrink after each pregnancy; I'm now on my third pregnancy and it's there again.. surgery is an option, but they can cause more harm then good, like bleeding and more rectal tears. My OB advised against surgery so I just ignore it. Just get some Prep H.. take a warm bath and soak in Epsom Salt.

[LlamaLlover]

Yeah that's what I was thinking, this is my second pregnancy (13wks now). Do I need to make an appointment to get it looked at? Will it go away? Ughh this is so uncomfortable :(

[crisram]

That hemorrhoid is from pregnancy.. the pressure of the baby is a lot for your body to handle. A vein may have ruptured or you might have a small tear from going #2. Prep H and don't have sex until the pain subsides or you're comfortable enough.