I soooo feel your pain..
I live on an island, and there is NO Ob/Gyn here either. I see a General Practioner as well.. It is a bit worrisome honestly. I can't afford to go to the mainland, rent a hotel, and/or fly back and forth for appointments (or boat), plus when I go into labor, it is just NOT a practical "option."
I have been diagnosed w/ placenta previa, and am also worried about my pregnancy becoming high risk (b/c they just aren't really equipped for anything going wrong here!).. BUT, I am trying to remain optimistic and am just doing what the GP tells me.. I am guessing that (G_dforbid) anything goes wrong, you would be medivac'd to the nearest larger facility?. That is what they do here. If something bad happens, I know I will be medivac'd to Boston.. I am hoping not b.c I HATE to fly, but I am just taking it one day at a time. I wish I had better advice, but I wanted you to know you aren't all alone in feeling like you can't get the care you need! =)
((Hugs!))
Every pregnancy is different. Maybe you should try to be optimistic and see how the begining of the pregnancy goes, you may not have any problems. Then if you develop any, is there a relative you can stay with near a better hosptial?
sounds like you should go and stay near a bigger hospital, just to be safe. you are obviously concerned and stressed and this will not help. go and stay near a bigger hospital if htis is possible i would i would want to be protected in case.