HELP PLEASE. freaking out

[loumacn]

My last period finished on 3rd April it is now 18th May and I've seen nothing!!
HOWEVER, i have taken 2 home pregnancy tests.
One, on the 6th of May which was negative and one today 18th May which was negative!?

WHAT IS HAPPENING!??? I'm only 18 years old, not ready for a baby!
My boobs are extremely sore, kinda like my period is coming, but where is it?

Can anyone offer any reassuring advice? The preg tests i bought were both expensive, high sensitivity and used correctly.

[loumacn]

Hi everyone - its now the 22nd of may and my period has just begun. Thank you so much for all your replies :)

[atztwin31]

i agree and will also tell you the same thing in the event test are negative the best test is to go to your doctor and have bloodwork done this will clear up any stressing questions, also while you're there discuss other options of birth control there are many new contraceptives the Nuva Ring, wonderful ring you insert for three weeks out for a week and start over, and the depo shot which you only need to get every three months and your period sometimes stops its wonderful...good luck i was a teenage mommy its not always easy...also fyi three thrusts or not it only takes 1 strong sperm to fertilize an egg people always think they can't get pregnant but you can don't be naive.....

[Clysta]

There are a ton of different reasons why you're period could be late. Stressing will not help, but will probably end up delaying it longer, so you need to calm down. The best way for you to be able to tell if you're pregnant or not will be to go to your doctor and get blood work done. Not everyone gets symptoms when they're pregnant. And there is a chance that a test will still not show you as pregnant yet. Mine didn't show positive until I was 7 weeks along. If you're not ready for a baby, you should probably want to get another form of birth control to use along with condoms. Or abstain, which will guarantee you won't get pregnant.  

[loumacn]

Please people! I am very very very concerned (not only about 'pregnancy') but about reasons why my period could be late even if I am not pregnant! I highly doubt I am I am not tired, nauseous, or anything...

[loumacn]

That is not my method of birth control, i 99% of the time use a condom.
No weight gain/loss - everything appears normal .
If i were pregnant, its been 2 weeks late - wouldn't it say positive by now?

[loumacn]

Also - I haven't had unprotected sex (nothing has been ejaculated into me). Sex without a condom for about three thrusts (excuse the detail!), other than that a condom is used! Hasn't been broken.