we are trying to get pregnant

[lizfdz]

I have been with my boyfriend on and off for about two years, He has been wanting to have a baby with me since we meet two years ago. Now that I am finally ready to take that step, it has been hard for us. I got pregnant in April of 2011, but I had a miscarriage in June.  Since September 2011 we have been trying and so far I have not been pregnant. I am starting to worry if it's my age, I am 31 and so is he. He also has high blood pressure and a thyrod problem, I don't know if his medication affect our results. I have a child from a previous marriage, so sometimes I think it could be him. Any suggestions? I have checked with the doctor but he said we don't have a fertility problem, because it hasn't been a year of trying to conceive.

[Mom2bejuly18]

I had a miscarriage January 2010 and didnt get pregnant again until October 2011 so have some patience :)

[AnnieBrooke]

Maybe you have an ambivalence problem.  Are you really sure you want to have a child together, if you're not  wanting to be married?  A child is a bigger commitment in terms of having to stick through the rough times, even than marriage is.