who is the dad?help

[sammyjb]

i am 17 weeks preg today by my ultasound i had recently which i was then 14weeks 5 days.my due date is november 19th 2010 which gfives me the lmp of 12th feb and conception of around 26th feb only prob is i was goin out with my current bf then until we broke up and i slept with my best frend ont he 24th feb,a total one off mistake,me and my bf got bk together on the 26th feb and slept together on the 27th,so thy r both around the dates they r sayin i concieved if the dates are right,but the thing is i had a period at end of january and i no fr certain that i was on on the last saturday of january but im not sure what day of my period it was but think it was towards the end.to confuse me even mre i bled fr one or two days lightly around the 12th feb but also did just b4 the 21st feb,i really want my boyfrend to be the father and he doesn no of this situation as when i had my scan i wrked the dates out wrong and really thrt it was def his and its now killing me that it may not be his,i really dnt want it to be my frends.i read that after 13weeks accuracy of ultrasounds decreases and i was nearly 15 weeks at mine.could my ultrasound be slightly off and could my dates be right and thiers wrong? and could the bleeds i had have been false periods or real? please help xxx

[Clysta]

I wouldn't imagine you could because you need their DNA, plus I think they all have to give consent to do the test. It's something you would need to be honest about. They all deserve to know this, and as hard as it is, you put yourself in this situation.

[sammyjb]

and is there anyway u can do those tests without them knowin as i wouldnt want him to no i was doin the test as if it came bk his i wld rather not tell him but if it was the others and not my bf obv i wld have to tell my bf but i wld need to get my hed round the fact he will leave me when i tell him and all xx

[sammyjb]

yes i get that but what about the period i had in jan and then the two bleeds i had before i supposebly concieved cos if my last real period was end of jan shouldn that makes my conception dates diff to what they say as my periods were all normal up until the last one in january it was only after that i had bleedin twice in one month?x

[nickieb85]

I think the only way to determine the true paternity is to have a test after the baby is born. These dates are way too close together to determine who the daddy is...

[gigi599]

both of them where really near your ovulation date, i would say theres no way to know for sure unless you do a paternity test.

sorry