worried scared and confused!

[Geoban]

Hey! my boyfriend has notice my mad mood swings and feeling low and they are worse than normal pmt. it could be that im stressed with work and coursework deadlines, however i have started taking the pill in the last month. i was told that breast tendernes was normal but they have been like it for a couple of weeks. i waited for my period to come but i was 3 weeks late and around the time i was due to come on i started spoting and then 3 weeks late r had my period but it only last 4 days when its normally around 7. a month on and i am waiting for my period again and have had light spotting on and off for a week. i misscarried a year ago and my periods have never been the same since sometimes they are on time but sometimes there not. but now i have random bleeding to :s. i dont want to tell my boyfriend because i dont want to worry him as we lost the last baby please help me. could i be pregnant? x

[gillianl]

i agree with Quinns momma it can take a few months for your body to get used to the pill in your system, the fact your also stressing doesn't help things.  Until your body regulates itself i would advise your partner wears condoms if you do not want to risk an unplanned pregnancy.  Best of luck!!

[Quinns momma]

Sounds more like stress and the pill which you recently started taking. It does take time for your body to get used to a new hormone and the spotting and irregular cycle is not uncommon.  If concerned take a test but I am sure it is just the pill causing all of this.