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Whos the father?

I really dont know who the father could be..
I know only dna test will let me know 100% but thought getting so extra opinons would help.
my due date is 02 oct
So they say my conception date was 10th jan.
I had unprotected sex with guy number 1 on the 4th 15th 16th n 17th.
And also unprotected sex wit guy 2 on the 7th

Looking back I know I shouldnt of done what I did but I cant change whats halpened and both partys involed know whats going on so ive always been honest.
Just wanna kno if theres more of a chance of the baby being guy no 1 or guy no 2 please help.
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I have a question my due date is July 10th 2013 so the put me at 12 weeks and 4 days pregnant but my boyfriend only been out of jail 11 weeks 3 days I had sex with a differ guy on October 10 who my baby father is
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2011481 tn?1374262667
I am glad that you are keeping your head held high and that you were honest with both guys from the beginning.  Your baby is a blessing and have no doubt that you and baby will have an amazing life together, no matter the outcome of the DNA test!!

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DNA is best especially because it's all so close together that u were with both of them but my opinion would be guy 2 who u were with on the 7th if your conception date is the 10th because the guy's little guys can stay alive inside u for 3-5 days to be able to swim around there and make a baby
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Thank u. It is hard not knowing but I only have a few weeks left so ill know soon. No matter what this baby will b loved n cared for n I cant wait to meet him or her :) thank u for all ur help
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I'm betting on number 2 as well
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3158998 tn?1358542044
Sperm can stay inside you alive for at least 5 days after having intercourse... So it could be either or... My best wishes...!!!!
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2011481 tn?1374262667
First Day of Last Menstrual Period:  December 27, 2012

Probable Date of Ovulation:  January 10, 2013

Possible Dates of Conception:  January 6 to January 14, 2013

Due Date:  October 3, 2013 (40 weeks)

This is what I calculated for you... I am going to say that it is guy #2 that is the father, but to be 100% sure I would take a DNA test because you never know, you might have ovulated later rather than in the middle of your cycle.  

Good luck to you my dear!


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Started on the 27Th of dec ended 31st
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2011481 tn?1374262667
I know that it is very close, but when was your LMP?  Just want to calculate something for you...
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187316 tn?1386356682
Its doubtful that it would be guy one because sperm can't survive for more then a week in PERFECT conditions and by the time you would have ovulated it would already be day 6. Its much more likely it is guy 2 since it was only 3 days before ovulation. However, dating a pregnancy is almost impossible because there are SOOO many different factors involved. You could have ovulated later or earlier then normal, it could have taken longer or shorter for the egg to implant into the uterine wall. A couple days can make a huge difference. DNA test is going to be the only sure fire way to know.
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This is tmi. There is a five to seven day window that sperm can survive in the uterus. Basically it's whoevers swimmers got their first. On your date of conception you would have had both of their sperm in your uterus. (I know tmi).
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Yes a dna test is what will b done at the end of the day. Ive stop stressing a long time ago. As there is no.way other then a dna test to b 100% sure thank u for ur insight
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From my lmp being on the 8th and my due date has changed from it being the 18,15,12, and now 11th.
Id say the are both still close. But u can use my dates as some kind of insight.
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2195822 tn?1341056911
I agree, even though there's more chance it could be one guy, you can't know for sure. Try and relax, enjoy your pregnancy, and get the DNA sorted once baby is here. Good luck to you x
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There's a chance it could be either guy. It would all depend on the guy and his sperm.
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Its pointless guessing coz it could be either one as ur dates are close together. Try not to stress out and just wait till the babys born to get the dna test done.. Good luck n take care x
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Thank u
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Thats what ive always thought too. Not liking that tho. Thank u
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Me too. I'm thinking its no. 2.
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Honestly Im betting number two if your conception time is accurate because that means you were fertile that week I wish you the best
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