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9030182 tn?1405387562

wow well dang

As soon as I was gonna tell my mom this morning I came downstairs and she started talking to my son and she said well I'm going back to bed o didn't sleep at all last night so ik that was the wrong time to tell her and also my bd was like why don't u tell her when u come over my house like i should call her I wanna tell her face to face.
Then yesterday I seen my cousin and she said to me ur getting fat and I also had a kind of a baggy shirt on I told her I'm not fat I'm pregnant and she was like Aaliyah I'm mad at u but idk y she's mad at me she had two kids by 19 too. She was saying my dad is going to b mad I really don't care what my dad has to say me and him aren't close I don't live with him he lives like two hrs away. Ans she was like them don't tell ur mom well I think it's right to tell her. I was gonna tell her today that I'm pregnant but I don't want to explain anything to her I don't think I have to she knows how ppl get pregnant
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????
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9030182 tn?1405387562
I will tell her don't know what's gonna come
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I am a mother of 4 kids an one on the way! 3 girls,I am 37 years old! Coming from a Mom,  no madder what my child does,no madder what, I always tell them to tell me the truth!  Tell me the truth before someone else does! Your Mom already knows your pregnant, she's waiting for you to come to her! She loves you a deserve the truth from her daughter!!  Do the right thing
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9030182 tn?1405387562
Would it b crazy since she is sleep text it to her and tell her if she wants to talk about it we can because ik she'll b on her phone when she wakes up
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9030182 tn?1405387562
I think my mom.is gonna b mad and not act the same way as the first time because this is my second pregnancy
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When I told my mom I had to have my best friend there for support. She had to keep smacking me for me to get the words out of my mouth...I thought she was gonna be mad BC me and my bf had just had a REALLY bad fight and it looked bad..bad timing..but besides the normal lectures and minor hissy fit..all is well now,she's baby crazed
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9030182 tn?1405387562
Thanks I'll let u know I hope it goes good with u. When I told my mom the first time she didn't yell at me. But then she's gonna tell.me and my bd and brought her stupid bf along saying she needs to talk to us and saying I had to get an abortion and ****
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Do it when she wakes up but just do it today. Just think of it like a bandaid. That's how I'm looking at it. I even stayed the night at my parents house last night so I could tell them both in person... its gunna suck they are gunna be so disappointed but it's now or never! Lol let me kno how it goes girl I will let you know how it goes with mine :/
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9030182 tn?1405387562
I'm still gonna tell her today because I need to
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I think I should repeat what I said yesterday in the aspect that your mom is financially supporting you right now and not consulting with her about your pregnancy is wrong. You have a lot of explaining to do and a lot of apologies in my opinion because your living under her roof. I think everyone would feel a little different if you were living 100% independently but you have to realize you're not and your mom has the right to be upset. Humble yourself. Seriously. But that's just my opinion.
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9171934 tn?1405180032
I told my mom like 5 months ago she was upset not because i was pregnant but because who the dad is and she was right i chose the wrong guy to have a family with. After that she told my dad and well they're all happy because it's their first grandchild. :) staay positive
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You keep making worse for yourself bc you keep putting it off, if shes gonna be upset shes gonna be upset no matter when, where or how you tell her but she probably will be even more upset if you wait super long... just go ahead I know its scary as crap but its gotta happen sometime before you start to show a lot :)
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9030182 tn?1405387562
I was she went upstairs to go to sleep I didn't want to tell her if she didn't get no sleep last night I should still tell her today anyways
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Just do it.  I'm telling my parents today.... its never going to be good timing. I realized that myself.
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