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I think my son maybe trapped!
My son has been going a girl excactly a month, he is 15 she is 16, she just done pregancy test says she pregnat. But don't understand how when my son wore a condom every time and she said she was on the pil. She was going a boy a week n half before she started going with my son. I'm at a lost here don't know what to do and he scared. Please any advice in what to do.
Yes, as RockRose stated, has anyone else actually seen the pregnancy test?
Plus, this all NEEDS to be confirmed by a physician as well.
Condoms and pills are NOT 100% fool-proof and who is to say she has been taking her bc correctly or if he used a condom every time and correctly. I mean we are talking about a 15 year old and a 16 year old.
If it is confirmed that she is, either of the boys could be the father. Then, you all will have to wait until the baby is born to do a paternity test.
He wasn't "trapped" because I am sure he knows there is always a possibility of pregnancy every time he had sex with this girl. He definitely used poor judgement.
Plus, this all NEEDS to be confirmed by a physician as well.
Condoms and pills are NOT 100% fool-proof and who is to say she has been taking her bc correctly or if he used a condom every time and correctly. I mean we are talking about a 15 year old and a 16 year old.
If it is confirmed that she is, either of the boys could be the father. Then, you all will have to wait until the baby is born to do a paternity test.
He wasn't "trapped" because I am sure he knows there is always a possibility of pregnancy every time he had sex with this girl. He definitely used poor judgement.
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Hi, well---------- it is possible to get pregnant in a month's time and birth control does fail sometimes. So, it is always possible.
As brice said, a paternity test will be necessary after the child is born to know for sure.
These are children and I think it is such a shame when they ruin their childhood by doing adult things. I know I am old fashioned but I think this should be a HUGE wake up call for your son----------- our actions can have unwelcome consequences and if he doesn't want the responsibilities of an adult----- he should not play with fire. I'm glad he tells you he wore a condom, that is good. But he's still a kid and this is sad.
I'm sure you are freaking out knowing the implications of his becoming a father at this young age. good luck to you and in 9 months you'll know for sure.
As brice said, a paternity test will be necessary after the child is born to know for sure.
These are children and I think it is such a shame when they ruin their childhood by doing adult things. I know I am old fashioned but I think this should be a HUGE wake up call for your son----------- our actions can have unwelcome consequences and if he doesn't want the responsibilities of an adult----- he should not play with fire. I'm glad he tells you he wore a condom, that is good. But he's still a kid and this is sad.
I'm sure you are freaking out knowing the implications of his becoming a father at this young age. good luck to you and in 9 months you'll know for sure.
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