Anal Sex, Women's view

[SeriousSam]

I see all these posts about anal sex and have to wonder, do any women actually enjoy it or is it just something that is done when both partners feel like throwing a bit of freaky into their sex life for a change?

[jml1986]

I've never tried it, but I am not opposed to it or grossed out by it. I have said that I would try everything once, but I haven't jumped off the boat on that one yet.

[Crystlas]

Who said anything about pounding away?  Lovemaking can be nice, sensual and slow too!

[Crystlas]

I could not have said it better myself.  Thank you!  Strange, I was reading Rock Roses post thinking the same thing.  I see her lurking through the forums speaking for others and never for herself too!  Rock Rose, I am in a NORMAL Long term relationship.  Geez... I am planning my wedding for goodness sakes.  I have only done anal with two people in my entire life,,, if you read my other posts.  And both of those men I was married to or am getting ready to marry.  I think that fits the catagory of a normal long term relationship!  

[sugarpea013]

Please don't take this the wrong way...
I've seen you do this before. You tend to "speak" for the group. You said "women with normal long term relationships don't like this." You also made a blanket statement about oral sex a couple weeks ago saying that women don't like it.

Would it kill ya to speak for YOURSELF? And what, so if a couple enjoys anal sex they aren't "normal"? Come on.

[RockRose]

SeriousSam,  reading through this thread,  women with normal long term relationships don't like this.  

I'm not sure what answer you're looking for,  there are some women who  are willing to do this.  I think women who have normal perspectives on long term relationships don't welcome anal sex.

I did try it a couple times,  and I'm loving and open,  and I would break into a full body sweat and would shake doing this.  

Poop is what is supposed to come out of the anus.  It lasts,  like 10 seconds.  At most.

10 minutes of someone pounding on your anus is a horrific ordeal,  no matter how much you want to please the guy.  

Do you see any other mammals doing this?  No.  You don't see one single other mammmal doing this.  

Serious Sam, do loving enjoyable pleasurable things with your woman.  Don't ram things into her anus the wrong way.  

Best wishes.

[Crystlas]

I think if you meet that special person you want to try new things with, it is ok.  I have been a very sexual person over the years, always being careful, of course.  I never did this with anyone but my ex-husband and my now fiance.  I know I will spend the next 60+ years with this man, so I am not worried about exploring alternate sexual experiences with him.  We have a deep level of commitment and love in all avenues of our relationship.  My ex was an abusive bas*ard and It took me 7 years to find someone special enough to get married again.  With that, comes being relaxed enough to do other things sexually than I normally would in a standard dating relationship.   So, I understand exacty where you are coming from only wanting to do certain things with your ex.  Sounds like you are still in love with him to do those kinds of things!