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6548496 tn?1384490023

Boyfriend Problems

Me and my boyfriend have been together for a long time and i have found out he has cheated on me more than once but i love him and dont want to lose him is there any advice anybody can give me he is the only thing that makes me happy and he was my first for everythign
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Are you worried you won't find someone else?  I wouldn't worry about that.  Believe me he isn't the ONLY man on the planet earth that wants to be with you.  Doubt that.  I believe this but the problem is that you don't believe this and you need to.  

He should be upset with what he did because it was rotten.  He said he was thinking about you?  You mean during all the times he cheated on you?

Being that you are only 17 having a bf should be the least of your worries.  

I think you need to work on your self-esteem and self-worth because it sounds like you have little to none and you should do this without a guy in your life.

For some reason you are linking your self-worth to a guy.  This is extremely concerning.  

Many people have had a "first" bf and a "first" true love.  Though it may feeling like the world is ending when the relationship doesn't work out the reality is that the world ISN'T ending and you will get through the breakup.  

We teach people how to treat us.  You are allowing him to continue to mistreat you if you stay.  

Your choice........

All the best.
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6548496 tn?1384490023
well we are friends for right now
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Boobear.........Are you serious?

Are you just friends or dating?

I wouldn't recommend you jumping right into another relationship so soon.
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6548496 tn?1384490023
i met a really nice guy and who is treating me way better than what my ex did
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6548496 tn?1384490023
thanks
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973741 tn?1342342773
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I would continue to do just that.  He sounds unstable and you don't need that in your life.  good luck dear
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6548496 tn?1384490023
thanks i have been avoiding him ever since we split up
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