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Did I do anything wrong?

19 and I got this 18 year old pregnant, (Drinking + Vulnerability). She went to my UNI. I decided she moved into my one bedroom flat, so it'd be easier for me to look after her. This was about 4 months ago, Now she is 6 months pregnant, We've been talking alot, playing ps3 alot, joking around alot basically we've been close, But we had a few intimate moments, but she passed it off as her hormones. Its a one bedroom flat, she sleeps on my bed whilst I sleep on the couch. She went to sleep at her parents, Because her dad had to walk all night, and her mum was ill + her brother is a douche. I decided to invite a girl over, well we were on the couch making out, and she walked in, stared at as for 10 seconds with the face of a ******* bull, then stomped upstairs. I told the girl to leave, but its been two weeks since that "incident", and She doesn't even talk to me anymore, she just ignores me, whenever I try say how my day went, no matter what I said she always replies with "Good for you" I tried cleaning the apartment, cooking buying her clothes. I bought her the buggy and crib she always wanted, and this is killing me, I now can only barely pay for the flat. Should I stop this? I care about her, I wouldn't mind dating her, she is beautiful, golden brown eyes, light brown complexion (mix-race/latino), frizzy brown hair, and the body of a goddess.

Should I stop trying? Have I done anything wrong?
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well look at it like this if you were a women and pregnant u probably would not be dating and she probably feels like you shouldnt either because you got her that way...just apologize and tell her you made a mistake...if that dont work just let her be she will get over it in time...just remeber she will probably cry very easy so be sensitive.
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2020005 tn?1628125976
Well, I guess the same would go if you walked in on her with another man, would that upset you? I think I would be upset if I was her, if you weren't in an established relationship, that needed to be made very clear, just as much as being very clear if you ARE in a relationship, she's very hormonal right now, stop buying her things, and talk to her. Let her know you care about her, and want to be with her if that's what she wants, good luck!
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Did you and the mother of your child establish a relationship? If the answer is no it dsnt matter you share a home with her if she thinks you're together and you feel you aren't tell her tht but to bring another woman into the home is disrespectful..
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3138931 tn?1350940318
You need to talk to her, and get her to listen...Tell her "you and i are not dating however i wouldnt mind being with you but i cant tell how you feel. I want you to tell me what was so wrong about me making out with a girl when you and i are not even boyfriend or girlfriend.

and TRY your best to not argue and get angry with her when she yells at you...just remember, you want to fix the situation, not make it hectic. =]
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