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[Sherylyn]

Hi there,

I'm not sure if this is the correct place to post this but I will give it a shot. I've been seeing this guy now for the past four months... I've known him for the last four years! He has a son from the previous relationship and the mother of the baby can be a handfull at times. They've been broken up for a couple months now. I know it's a bit too soon for him and I to be involved but we have a crazy chemistry and connection I can't explain. I've always had a thing for him since i've met him but we never acted on it till just recently. Anyways... we've been obviously sleeping together for sometime now.... anyways i went to the doctor and found out that i am pregnant. I never told him that there might be a possiblity of it because i didn't think there really was i just went for my medical and found out that way. I found out yesterday. I called him and went to tell him last night, he took it alright considering everything that has been happening. Now.... we need to tell my parents and his parents and the baby mom... Im scared!

We haven't made it like offical.... we've been just seeing one anotehr for this while and with this happening i am not sure how this will effect our relationship (or whatever you call it).

He wants me present while he tells the baby mom....

I dont know what to do..

advice

[Sherylyn]

Thank you very much for your advice. I will for sure let you guys know how i am doing during my pregnancy!

[el_em_en_oh]

Good luck to you Sherylyn... keep a strong head, and don't just lay down and take it in the a$$ from his baby-momma. As brice & I both said, none of her business.

Sounds like you've got a good head on your shoulders. Onward and upward!

Good luck with your pregnancy, and please let us know how you're doing from time to time.

Best of luck.

LMNO

[Sherylyn]

Hi there,

Thank you for your feedback! He takes extremely good care of his son. He's been there for him through everything and is a great father. In this situtation I have a good paying job and so does he. I would get my one year maternity leave.. and he would get one week leave when the baby is born. You guys do bring up valid points, it's none of her buisness. I guess I'm just really worried... but I am sure I will get over it and move forward with my pregnancy.

[el_em_en_oh]

I agree with brice on this one... Who f*cking cares what his 'baby momma' thinks about you and your pregnancy? What business is it of hers that you guys are having a baby together?

It's none of her business, and unless she's somehow still tangled up in your relationship with him in some way that you haven't told us about, then I'd say that you guys are under NO obligation whatsoever to even mention it to her.

[brice1967]

What difference does it make to the other woman?  If your guys relationship with the other woman is over, its non of her business at all.  Unless this woman is going to help foot the bill or go into labor for you, it isnt any of her business.

Just make sure this guy can take care of his end of the deal now.  That would be my only concern.  How good is he taking care of the other child?  How much money is left over at the end of the month?  Those are your/his concerns.