Boyfriendless and Concerned

[Highlighter702]

I'm an attractive a fairly active 19 year old, and yet I haven't ever had a boyfriend. Is there anyone else that can relate? To be honest I'm wondering how this could have happened. I'm looking forward to a relationship, but it doesn't seem likely. Any thoughts on why?

[Highlighter702]

I'm at a very small college in the city and I live in the suburbs.

So far I suppose it's just down to bad luck.

Thanks for the advice, Judy.

[Judy246]

Tell us a little information about yourself. Do you live in a rural area, which can be rather away from people, city are you in college?

All the above are factors that can contribute to you meeting guys. A great place to meet guys is school (College). When I entered college I met so many guys, that I got myself into trouble dating 3 guys at once. It will happen naturally and in it's own time, but make sure to take good care of  your appearance, keep yourself active, continue your education and surround yourself with good people, friends and family and I promise that it will happen when you least expect it. Also, mingle with friends, go out and socialize, there is a lot o places to meet guys. I met my good looking, intelligent, everything I ever wanted in a guy....in church..yes, church...it happened, so be opened minded and just be yourself. There are thousands of guys out there, just waiting to meet you.