Fiance

[pink_white_tiger]

I have what I consider a problem. My fiance likes to look at porn and I told him that it hurts me and that I do not like it. He still continues to do this and I think he is addicted to it. We do have sex and stuff, but sometimes I find that he has went to a porn site. What should I do? What would make him look at porn when he has me?

[pink_white_tiger]

okay, when he comes back we will discuss it more and go from there. thank you for the help.

[teko]

You should sit down and evaluate what you will and will not tolerate in a relationship. If both of you mutually saw nothing wrong with porn then it would not be a problem however, that is not the case and if he cannot respect you as his girl and your feelings about it, then he is showing you disrespect and basically telling you he does not care how you feel and he will do what he will do regardless of what you think about it. To me. That is a dealbreaker. I will not be in any relationship where my partner does not show me the respect I deserve. And vica versa.

Bottom line? He has put his porn above your feelings. Now you have a choice. Accept it and live with it, or not.

[pink_white_tiger]

I consider it cheating.