i posted this under mental health and recieved 0 responses, so ill try it here. after 24 years of marriage we divorced. she had 3 treatments for opiate addiction. after apart a year she came to me for help and i had her detox and stay with me to attend after care. we lived in diff cities. she was given suboxone for maint. things went well and we reunited as a family with our 2 kids. for 3 years all was well then last fall she drew away. in jan she left, and had met another man who she is getting married to this month....now here is the deal and my concern...is she back on drugs?, maybe.....in march she came to me for sex, in april she was constantly coming over uninvited, jine 1st she told me she was getting married for the 4th time in a one on one talk, that day she said she couldnt tell me she was sure of it, the next day she said she was. 1 week ago she came to pick up money for my kids camp, i was gone and left it in a envelope, she went thru the house, my papers, bedroom, and left a cig butt in a ashtray. i confronted her about it and she lied.i pressed it and i said she needs help, mental health help and to think on it...i also said she tells me so many times she gets married that i think she wants me to tell her not to....10 min after that call i get a voice mail from her.um, im not sure, but i think you are right,we need to talk, then the next day she said i read into it..no more contact since p.s. im in therapy and ok......any ideas lads and lassies?