I really need someons advice and help bad!

[dida21]

I am 21 i've waited to have sex till i was 19 almost 20. Ever sence i've started to have sex i've been bleeding at weird times (mainly when i'm getting fingered or having sex) I've realy only had one partner. But anyways, I am actually having this bleeding at times that are no where near the time for my period, I am on birthcontrol so I only get my period every third month (doctors request.). Whenever I do anything sexual or forplay, I bleed; the blood is more of a bright color no where near close to the color of my period. I trufully cant recal if it hurt or not because I havent had sex in over three years now, i've only tried fourplay once on myself and the same thing happened so I just never did it again. Though i've only had one sexual partner and he was really bad so he never really gave me an orgasm to start with. Everytime that i've had anything happen to me, with fingers, a toy, or even sexual play I was well lubed but found blood almost instantly after I started.

     Another thing is that i really dont get about what is happening to me is that I dont get any enjoyment out of it. meaning when I did have sex with that one partner though he did suck i really didnt get any pleasure out of it at all. So I'm starting to think that something is really wrong with me/my body. Is anyone else having the same problems and does anyone know what is wrong with me? Please i need help~!!!~

[dida21]

Ok thank you so much for your help; I really appreashiate it and i'll let you know what happens.

[AnnieBrooke]

Go see the doctor about the bleeding.  It suggests friable tissue of some kind, and it would be a good idea to find out what is happening.

You might get more enjoyment out of sex (at least with a vibrator) if there wasn't that question in the back of your mind about what the bleeding is caused by.

I don't know why your doctor wants you to only have a period once in three months.  That sounds odd.  Unless you have some kind of condition like endometriosis, I would possibly run the whole question by a different doctor and find out if the reason your doctor gave is plausible.