Desperate for advice.

[11021993]

Hello anyone/everyone.

I'm in desperate need of relationship advice. I'll try to be brief. I've been with a girl for little over one month "officially" however I've known her for about a year and we've been romantically involved for 4 months.
Basically everything was great, she's perfect for me and I feel as though I'm falling in love. However one day out of the blue she went cold on me. Rarely texts me anymore and whenever I do I feel like I'm bugging her. I've brought this up to her and she doesn't seem to see the problem and doesn't seem to want to make things right. I feel needy but I don't like how distant she's become. We used to text amost all day every day and now some days go by where we don't talk at all. This has been happening for nearly two weeks. I've only seen her once in that time and things were okay but I know all in all something's changed
My main worry is that she's gone off me and I don't know how to go on. If I try talk to her I feel annoying or make things worse. Has anyone experienced anything similar? Please help

[Nighthawk61]

I'm relieved for you. I've seen this sort of thing go on and on, with my son. He now is in a relationship where they both are close and would never hurt each other the way his last girlfriend did. I'm so happy to see him now so relaxed, and never a worry about where her head's at. This new girl was raised to be a "good women"  God bless her. That's what my son needed, and I think that's what you need to. It hurts at first, but soon you will become aware that God had a much bigger and better plan for you son. Happy Trails and Keep Smiling. Something good is coming down the bend for you my friend. xo:)

[11021993]

I'm 20 and she is 18.
A quick update: she decided to break to with me pretty soon after this post which is something I'm finding very difficult to grasp since I wasn't at all ready to not have her in my life.
Thanks however for the responses. This website is a blessing

[Londres70]

How old are you and your gf?  You sound young.

"I've brought this up to her and she doesn't seem to see the problem and doesn't seem to want to make things right."......Well, she's telling you that she is comfortable with how things are now, unfortunately you aren't.  

Try having another talk with her and see what happens.  If you get the same response that you got the first time you brought this up to her then assume she isn't that into you.  I wouldn't stick around for someone who isn't that interested in you.  Sounds like she requires more space then you.

[Ladykonnie]

Have a talk with her and if her heart us not in it anymore.... You know what to do. Some people just need a little space. But you won't know unless you talk to her.

Regards

[thatquietgirl]

You need to have a serious talk with her and see if she is still committed to this relationship.  If she can't give you a straight answer, you may need to just end it now.  It will hurt, but you will be able to go on and find that girl who can give you what you need rather than someone who goes cold on you after only four months of romantic involvement.  This woman does not sound into you at all and may be looking around and keeping you on the hook without an answer in case she can't find something else.