How can I give back?

[IMJ484]

I'm a junior in high school and this is my first real relationship
I've been best friends with this guy since freshman year, and somewhat In a relationship since then
But recently we have been moving more into a relationship, we've made out, dry hump with cloths on, he's felt me up I kinda quickly felt him, but then got nervous of pregnancy risk cus we were in a hot tub, but anywho
This guy Is the best he has seen me at my best and worst we have slept together( just sleep!!) he has seen me after a long day in a cow barn, and was my prom date and saw me at my best, no matter how I feel or look he always makes me feel gorgeous
He had been so incredibly patient with me because I kinda prolonged kissing due to nerves
When we kiss and makeout i feel fantastic i love it when he touches me, he cant keep his hands off me love it!
He makes me feel fantastic emotional and physically
How can I do the same?physically Without sex or the oblivious ** and hand job lol
And emotionally what really gets a guy

[specialmom]

Hi there and welcome.  Well, we have some men here who may jump in to give you some help.  

Honestly, it sounds like you are doing things right to me.  He obviously likes you just as you are.  

I think that sometimes trying to look for clues about someone to make them happy is helpful.  Example, my husband likes his coffee.  I surprise him with a cup when he isn't expecting it but would enjoy one.  He loves his car.  I might offer to wash it for him.  he loves current events, so I read the paper so that we can talk about them.  

Things like that.  

Don't rush the sex stuff.  It's great and all but not how anyone ever really keeps their guy.  If he loves you for you, he'll love you regardless if you go all the way or not.  

peace and luck

[IMJ484]

Thanks for the advice :) I definitely am in no rush I don't plan to do anything til I'm 18 so I can get birth control for myself and the recommended std shots before engaging in anything cus my mom won't get them so il have to wait til I can get them myself
Sometimes I just feel like he gives me everything I just want to give him the same feelings as I do and have when he does something physical or emotional
Also it doesn't help that we almost have no common interests but he's so incredibly supportive of my hobbies and interests it jut gets hard to do things together even if hel say he enjoys it
I just want to have a moment where I feel like I have related him for all the amazing things he does for me

[specialmom]

It's always good to learn how to make your loved one feel special.  I'm glad you are interested in this.  But I imagine that you do as he seems to be very much into you.  So good luck dear