Tell her to not make this mistake she will regret it so bad...
Only God knows why he does what he does yes itll be tough to raise another baby but theyre ALWAYS a big blessing i am only 24yrs and expecting baby #4 my youngest just turned 1 this month and im so scared for thr baby to come in February but I know I will make it and itll all be worth it :)
Unfortunately, you can't tell her anything, nor can you decide that this is a mistake for her. What's right for one person isn't always right for another. If she has already made the decision, then only you can decide what to do about the relationship. If this is a deal breaker for you, then it's probably best to end this relationship and seek out someone whose views are more compatible with your own. I'm very sorry that you are in this situation, and I wish you the best.
Hello. Well, I think your girlfriend is in the positon with four other children to understand what she can handle. She most likely feels she is making the most responsible choice based on the situation. It's hard to be the male, I understand, as you have no say over what a woman does with her body even though it is your dna that she is pregnant with. But a woman has to carry the baby and often is the one who is left holding the bag with the child if the dad bugs out (her other four kids . . . ) so is the one who gets to decide.
It's hard. You may not recover from this but if you've shared your view and she feels abortion is HER best option, you have to respect that. good luck
So she lives with the dad of her other kids but is dating you and got pregnant. This is definitely complicated. To be honest, I think she is wise to understand that this is a very bad scene. You can't right now make a home for her and the other kids (who would be taken away from their father to live with you). I think that I'd really rethink this whole thing. She has a TON of baggage and things that should be her priority are her existing children. She's trying to get it together which unfortunately seems like it may lead to an abortion but if that is what she feels is the responsible and best decision giving this complex situation, I'm not going to argue that. Again, I'd consider that this relationship is not the best, her lifestyle is not going to lead to a happily ever after with you and that maybe a situation with a less attached woman would be better for you. good luck