I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half, and just recently he sat me down to tell me I am too loud in bed, and it turns him off. He explained that he doesn't like a lot of porn movies, because they are so loud and over the top, it just looks too fake to him. When we are intimate, and I reach climax, its a turn off for him, and he has a hard time focusing and getting back into things, because I am too loud. We are intimate quite regularly, and I never had a clue. I was embarrassed when he told me, because I know I am vocal, but I didn't realize I was that loud, and to be compared in that way was quite discouraging. I don't have a desire to have sex with him anymore, since I feel like I can't be myself in bed with him because I have to censor myself. We do love each other very much. I want things with us to work, but I just don't know what to do. Should I just suck it up, and bite my tongue?