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I had to guys :( ?

Ok I know I was mean for what I did but I did it to find out the truth . So I pretend to be a bisexual girl lol n decide to text him off another number he was telling this girl/me lol everything like wtf .i was pushing off  him like I am bi because I no for sure he won't have this girl lol.he was like he's home wana cuddle n stuff so I was like oh yah why don't you come to my crib. I know you guys mean what I did since he stay on campus he doesn't have a car yet. So I was like why don't you walk to my crib at first he said it was far I was like  come on you said you would do anything for me right ? So he did he kept calling I couldn't pick up lol he would've  no it's me. He got really mad at  the bi girl/me n said I wouldn't do this for noone not even my mom to make me walkout here with no ride. I felt so bad n wanted to say that's what you get for messing around with some chick lol. I did the right thing knowing all along but till this day I don't talk to him.
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973741 tn?1342342773
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Oh, I remember you now.  Lots of "is this normal' questions.  I see him and I want to puke, is that normal . . .  LOL. (lots of LOL's.)  And then in reading your profile---  you were trying to get pregnant and now are pregnant?  Should I throw in a LOL here??  Goodness.    good luck
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973741 tn?1342342773
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I agree.  in all truth, if I'm making up profiles and trying to be someone to figure out if someone is a cheater or not, there wasn't much of a relationship to begin with.  I also don't understand all the misplaced LOL's.  No offense, but what you did was serious, what happened in the relationship was serious and LOL really doesn't fit.  More like OMG.  

But you've got your answer.  I would move on and hopefully not date for a bit.  /then pick a good solid guy that you don't have to be a super sleuth to figure out if they are true to you or not.  good luck
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May I ask is this the same guy with the parking ticket fines situation and the one that made you physically sick when you saw him?
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"No, if you had that much distrust in a relationship to drive you to such extreme measures, then you should have just gotten out of the relationship."........NG     Exactly.  I couldn't agree more.  

If you think someone can't be trusted why keep dealing with them?

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480448 tn?1426948538
No, if you had that much distrust in a relationship to drive you to such extreme measures, then you should have just gotten out of the relationship.
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So I should've wait till he starts cheating on me
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480448 tn?1426948538
I don't agree with such dishonest, underhanded attempts at trying to catch someone doing something wrong.  If you have that little trust in him, then it's time to move on.  That's just too much drama and silliness and is quite immature, IMO.

That being said, your little game obviously yielded you the answers you needed.  Clearly your BF was willing to step out on you....with "you".  I think that says enough to put this one to bed.
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I had to it would be stupid not knowing.
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Your smart thats a good thing I bet he felt sad walking them miles for someone who doesn't exist lol
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Yea, that does seem underhanded. Your right tho, when u play with fire your going to get burned! I'm glad you found out how he was tho.
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