Why this sudden lost of excitement towards my girlfriend?

[potapioca]

I've been with my girlfriend for the past 8 months and I was always excited to do
everything with her like just sit and chill, go take walks anywhere etc.. I could
even easily picture us in the future very happy..
But about 2 weeks, we had many fights that involved a lot of crying and after those 2 weeks, I started and still to feel like im no more excited towards my girlfriend anymore!Everytime I think about the future with her or when I picture us going out, it's like a negative thought,like 'what if I dont feel excited anymore'? :(
Could it be boredom? because we are not going out very often but she comes home a lot to see me. We practically have no friends. it's just us, always us for these 8 months!
I know I love her and I care for her :/
Whats happening to me ? :(

[Londres70]

Agree with the above posters.

Perhaps you are spending too much time together and you both need to have other interests and friends apart.  The situation shouldn't be just "us."

[Nighthawk61]

It may be about "timing" for you and your girl. It might not be your time to stay at home with what amounts to a wife. It might be your time to get out there and meet a good many people, and ladies. I agree that you need to take a few weeks to think about if and how you do break up, if that's what you wish to do. Don't feel too bad about breaking up, if that's what you wish. If it's not right, then the sooner it's over the sooner she'll find her new partner, and you'll find what it is you want to do. That is what dating is about, and I agree, not all relationships are meant to last. Let us know how things are going for you and what you decide. Peace.

[specialmom]

Hi there. Well, things could be fizzling out.  that happens. We can have intense emotion and I contend, the faster we feel 'in love' or all into something that has just started, the bigger risk of it fizzling out it has.  

Yes, you could be bored.  yes it could have moved too fast.  yes, you could still care about her, like her, etc. but realize that as time has gone on, you're not as good of a match as it seemed in the beginning.

That is what dating is for.  To figure those things out and to decide if we want to opt out of the relationship or take it further.  Not every relationship is meant to continue forever.  

So, see how it goes in the next couple of weeks and if you still feel this way, consider that perhaps this relationship has run its course.  

Oh, and the initial excitement we feel will often dissipate and get weaker but a stronger love will grow from that familiarity if we are with the right person.

good luck