kicked me out...

[godsgift24]

So yesterday I explained how my boyfriend just annoys me and I tell him it's the hormones.. today was my day off since I work.night shift... and I was sleeping and basically later on an argument starts... he kicks me out.. so I moved back with my mom.  Before I Packed He Goes Out To Ride His Bicycle With His 14 Year Old sSister.  . Cause it relieves stress.. took him 2 hrs to ask where I am and to.receive calls. I ignore them of course.. then I'm on instagram and while I'm crying my eyes out he's out with his cousin and cousins friends drinking.. acting single basically.. ignoring my calls and texts.. why doesn't he care about me and the baby :( I feel like he isnt. Excited like I am....

I just feel like I don't matter anymore

[xocheyxo12]

Im in the same boat he broke up with me today and is asking girls to facetime and was messaging one while breaking up with me! I was and still am so upset he was fine yesterday then out of no where its over because im too snappy and dont do anything but im pregnant what can I do when im on bed rest..

[jamie_michael]

well he might just be trying to find a way to cope with the great responsibility my suggestion to you, don't text him or call him anymore let him come to you I know your pregnant but it will relieve stress to a point

[godsgift24]

I stopped calling... needing to.cope with about to be a dad is not a good reason to kick me out and act single.. if he does cheat on me tonight it is definitely not going past a mother father thing.. no relationship... I stopped crying but I'm not looking for him anymore.

[godsgift24]

Xocheyxo12.. yes I'm snappy too but they need to understand we are pregnant and can't control our hormones.. and sometimes they think that saying hormones is an excuse when it's definitely not

[stephannieluvv]

I'm sorry love! Men can be so stupid sometimes seriously!! I swear they have no idea what us women go thru during pregnancy and than expect us to be always happy & content UGH! drives me nuts .. Sorry your dealing with this hun! Definitely not a good feeling while pregnant

[Nov_miracle2014]

Every Time I Read somethinG Like This I'm Upset How Could THeSe Guys Be So Heartless Don't BE Depress I Know What's It Like JustThinkAbout YouR ChildAnd The Great Things He OrShe Will Become ,You Just Do WhatYou Have ToDo To MakeYour Baby Healthy Karma Is A ***** Everything They've Done Shall Surely BiteThen. TheyAre Not Worth The Tears I'm Learning Each Day Not To Waste My Tears For Them But For My Child.....You'll Be Ok Mama......Nuff love

[godsgift24]

Thanks girls. I'm still trying to cope with it.. it's hard sleeping in a bed without the person you love ..but I have my little sister, still not the same..

[GxoK]

I'm not saying this to excuse his actions but as women (mature women) we need to understand that being pregnant and hormonal isn't an excuse to just b a b*tch to everyone and our men. When we get like that, they get defensive, drown us out and hate us for being incapable of controlling ourselves. If we think before we speak, alot of arguments can b avoided. Again, I am totally NOT excusing his actions.

[shaparritamedina]

Well it looks like his not ready to be a father, and why would u want someone like that in u and urs baby's life if he kicked u out pregnant it's bc he doesn't love u,my sister's bf was like that to and after she had her baby he would kicked them out,u don't need a person like that in ur life

[godsgift24]

I'm not a ***** 24/7 there's just one of those days that he annoys me for no reason... he starts yelling then puts his hands on me.. now please tell me what I did wrong to deserve being slapped or my hair pulled because I'm tired and don't wanna be woke. up? Yes he's hit me because I slept too much because I had extreme fatigue

[godsgift24]

Gxok

[godsgift24]

@GxoK

[carol_foster1218]

If he put his hands on you, don't go back to him. Your baby deserves better than that. You deserve better. Just let him do what he's gonna do. You can't force a punk to be a dad.

[SD_CALI]

Momma u don't deserve none of this nor any good women deserve this. Love is sometimes blind and we forgive everything.  Love is a pain like love is dream. U have ur baby to think of now. If he don't appreciate it now later it's going to be late. Think about it only u can make things change.  Keep ur head up. XOXOX!

[Richa242]

I feel really bad for you but my child's father has been M.I.A my entire pregnancy and it hurts and i someyimes cry but you've got to lookforward like i do and realize that soon your going to have someone in this world that's going to love you unconditionally without worrying about your attitude. As mothers we have to be selfless when it comes to our children and that means doing what we have to so we can be positive enough to keep them happy. Let him go! And find happiness in the future. You can not make him be a responsible man.

[hellojojo2200]

F×ck that..u dont deserve that no matter what u said..and sleeping isnt.something 4.him.2.get.mad about its something he needs 2 b understanding of..im.sure.if.he felt like.sh!t and.was exhausted u.would let him.ssleep and take care of him!!...as women we r expected 2 do that..but men get excuses for "being overwhelmed"...not.okay..u deserve much better!!!im sorry hun..ur..strong lady and ull.get thru this.with or without him..and ifnu do decide u want 2 go.bak with him...he cant be allowed 2 treat u like that..and abuse u..he needs therapy and anger management...ur pregnant and.can.maybe be bitchy sometimez..what the heck.isnhis excuse????....anyway...men will treat u the way u let them sometimez..sadly....make it clear ur not gunna put up with it..be strong.momma..best wishes

[annikins95]

Honestly he probably doesn't quite understand what is going on and how this will affect him. You need to look at it from his point of view also.hes young and probably isn'tready to grow up

[GxoK]

Wow. Chill. I said twice I wasn't saying any of that to excuse his actions. I've been in an abusive relationship so I know what it's like but re-read what I said bc I clearly said I wasn't excusing what he did. And if he's gonna pick on u while pregnant, then that should've been a big wake up call bc it won't stop with u. It'll go onto ur kid too. But yeah, definitely said, verbatim, 'I'm not saying any of this to excuse his actions'.  So, relax. No need to get snarky with me.

[annikins95]

You also need to understand that you didn't state that he had put his hands on you in the post or in your comments either until GxoK

[annikins95]

Said something

[godsgift24]

@Annikins95 he's not that young . He's 26 .. so I guess he should've known that before getting me.pregnant again, because I miscarried in january, that he should've thought of the responsibility before doing what's already done.. I can't make him grow up like I wish he could.. but I guess he wasn't as ready as he thought

[godsgift24]

@GxoK I wasn't being snarky, or bitchy but of course if you're saying some girls need to think before we speak then it makes it seem like you're assuming I don't do so.. like everyone else, we can't control how we feel sometimes with the fatigue and being annoyed on certain days ... but you can't assume that a lot of pregnant women use being pregnant as an excuse or hormones to be bitchy .. sometimes it's more than that..

@annikins95 Of course I'm not going to state he hit me.previously in my post to.begin.. but some people get defensive and have to break it down that hey I'm not the b*tch here, there's more to just what I wrote . So, therefore I further went into detail

[hersheyma]

I was done when you said he slapped you and pulled your hair....I'm sorry but to hell with him...get your own stuff together and leave him where he is...he's going to continue doing things like that because he figure you'll let him and you won't go anywhere

[Jessika20]

My fiance tried to kick me out when I was 20 weeks pregnant then when he seen that I called my mom an told her me an my son where going to go stay with her for a while an I packed mine an my sons things he realized what he did. Still to this day we argue cause he's not doing anything to prepare for the baby. You just have to give him time. Once your baby is born he will realize oh sh*t that's my baby I need to step up or I am going to be put on child support for the next 18-20 years. Just give him his space let him do whatever it is he wants to do an when the time comes he will realize he made a mistake. Wish you the best of luck.