Just a question

[ashley911]

why do man just wont say sorry even when they didnt start the arguement but when we are not the cause we always or says sorry? how do u make a guy understand that even though you the one not in the wrong to still say sorry or why do man not see what they do sometimes and they have their mind made up that they havent done anything?

[teko]

Because depending on how they were raised, they tend to think it takes away their manliness sometimes. And if they are not responsible, no way will you get them to say sorry for something they did not feel responsible for it will just create another argument that they will not say sorry for. Lots of times tho they will try to do little things to make you happy. (Sometimes their way of apologizing without giving up their manhood! lol

[ashley911]

I feel like after 3 yrs we need a lil help and some teaching
Since this is both of our first long term relationship
But he don't feel so

[Judy246]

Why won't men apologize, pride and at times injmaturity. A real man will accept when he has made a mistake and want to make a mends right away, an inmature man is self absorbe, puff up with pride, stubborn! There is a saying, "Pride before a crash". It's important that we make a mistake, to accept the error and show character and apologize right away. It lessens conflict and avoids problems in the relationship.

[specialmom]

I don't know if it is just a man thing.  It is being stubborn.  I think everyone needs to own it if they are the cause of a fight and both parties need to get to the root of a problem.  Saying sorry shouldn't be hard to do when we are wrong.