Kind of Confused

[Monika1985]

Ok so i was texting a friend from my online page for about a few months and we finally decided to meet on sunday. We went to the state fair and had fun. He said he really liked hanging out with me, i'm different from other females, i'm pretty, cool, smart, etc. (as he did when we would text before we met) and now he says he dont understand why i'm single and that we would probably be best as friends since we kind of have opposite personalities/aspects of life. So i'm thinking my physical appearance played a role in this "some day you'll find a man who loves/values you" thing. Btw i'm a bbw :) . . . And like today he was all "who knows maybe we'll end up being together" . So now i'm like is this fool trying to make me his last resort or what ? I think i'm gonna keep things as a friend because thats how he wants us to be. What are your thoughts? :)

[Monika1985]

And i'm 25 going on 26 and i think he's either 26 or 27. We've both been "married" before. But he's kind of looking to settle down and i'm not. I still wanna have fun xD

[Monika1985]

I'm not trying to force a relationship. I'm not even sure if thats what i would want with now. I was just confused has to how he felt about me because i got mixed signals. Being friends is great too. You have the companionship of a male without any emotional ties. And we are kind of opposites. He's quiet and shy, i'm loud and fun. He someday wants kids , i dont think i do. We are going thru a similiar financial situation so we understand eachother in that sense. Eh . I aint gonna worry about. And yea he knew i was "thick" lol cuz i had sent pics :)

[Londres70]

Hmmm, sounds like he can't make his mind up about what to do with you.  He is definitely confused and indecisive. Or maybe, he is saying "this and that" to see how you respond.  

I wouldn't be more than friends for now.  

You all sounds very young.  

BBW shouldn't be a focus.  

[AnnieBrooke]

Don't exert yourself.  He's not interested in going any further, and one person can't make a relationship happen, it takes 2.