Any thoughts..?

[killsome]

Well, I'm 15, 16 in like 3 weeks..Well, Anyway, On Saturday which was 4 days ago, I got asked out, First Time I got asked out actually. Now it is Wednesday and she dumped over a text, Now to be honest you would think it would bug me, well it doesn't because I've put up a wall against my feelings, emotions that kinda stuff which sometimes to be honest interfears with daily life, I've had this wall for years for occations of getting "Dumped" and stuff. Do you think I'm right for doing so..I think I am but I want some Thoughts on it as well.  in the msg she told me that We are to far apart guessing by Homeing issues, As well as her bein depressed, Now for me, It only bugs me some what cause, I've never been asked out so it was awkward for me and as for never dating, I don't know what to do for a good relationship, Other than not living far apart, Thats an obvious, Anyways like I said any thoughts on it?

[Jennifer1987]

Your only 15, relax and dont let this get you down. 15 to me seems a bit young to be dating. Im 22 now and started dating when I was 17 and I just wish I didnt because I missed out on so much fun and enjoyment with my friends who were nearly all single... So it meant I was the odd one out for things to do. When you are in a relationship you tend to forget about friends and not spend much time with them..Now Im 22 and single and ALL my friends are in relationships.... I did it arse ways round!!!!  Just go out with friends, have fun and nbe young and silly!!!! You dont need a relationship to validate you!!

About outting up a wall, well is there a reason you did that?? Maybe you need to think why you have done that and see if you can get it sorted out. Your very young to have a "wall" blocking your emotions!!!

[loumacn]

4 days isn't a relationship - that girl was obviously playing a little game.

[killsome]

Thanks for the thoughts. =D

[teko]

Not a problem, the next one will be better. Go out with the guys and have a good time or just hang with girl friends, that is way more fun anyway then all the drama. Who needs that! I am glad it isnt bothering you, I think you might be a smidge disappointed but thats okay cause there will be plenty of next times.

[AHP84]

My thoughts are for you not to worry about it all. You've got *plenty* of time to figure out what to do to maintain a good relationship. And besides, what you had going between Saturday and today doesn't exactly qualify as a relationship.
As for your "wall"...I think what you're using it for right now, as protection against strong emotions for situations like you've just experienced, is a good thing. This girl has not taken your focus away from your daily life due to her dumping you via text message.
Right now, keep your focus on finishing school and just having fun being a kid. No need to be in a hurry to grow up and deal with all the ups and downs of complex dating relationships. You've got many years ahead of you, so right now, focus on important things like just being a carefree kid, keeping good grades, strong family and friendship relationships for support, going to college and getting into a profession you enjoy so you can one day be successful and a good provider for your future love-of-your-life and family. :-)