I totally agree with Kayannaboo she's doggin u and here it is I would love someone like u you r too nice u don't let nobody do u like that seems to me u love her more and she's takin it for granted but I'm here to listen and give my opinion it all comes down to what u want if I could say anything to her it would be get it together cause u don't knw what u have till its gone stop playin with peoples feelings! The relationship needs respect if y'all get back together
I think you just need to ignore here for awhile or just tell her no no and no some more. She MIGHT be cheating and just comes to you when she wants sex. I am not saying she is, just that it is a possibility. If she keeps putting you down then she doesn't really love you for who you are just what you got down stairs.
I agree with Kayannaboo. She does not want to be with you. If you all love each other, this going back and forth would not be going on.
Hi, well from what i see is that you guys need more communication.
You need to stop been so clingy with her, as girls we want a MAN that shows his manhood in a positive way. Like you dont have to txt, talk all the time. She asked you for space, maybe she feel like your suffocating her by you doing all those thing... you just gatta relax and just keep your self busy by doing your own things... Dont be 110% available for her... If she says JUMp... U JUmp!!!! like NO... You are an individual that has your own opinion. Be respectful to her, as a women... And it sounds like she has feeling for you... but you gatta stop been so clingy... let her miss you by not been available or you been so attentive to her... like theres gatta be a balance for everything... in a relationship too. Join the Gym, A sport maybe things like that will be insteresting things to her... you gatta make her want you!! but by you been there all over her wont happend... just relax... But Dont stop been there for her... like i said everything has a balance... Love her But LOve ur self TOO... and She will come around...
A bout the jealous, well you gatta trust her that she is not talking to her ex>> An just because other guys treated her bad doesnt mean YOU have to pay for it!!!! like i said LOve your self and she will come aroud... talk to her and hope things will work... BE A MAN!!!! ans stand up for your self... speak up when u have to... (With respect all the time) and dont cry when she tells you she doesnt want you on the phone... (do it when ur alone)... and when she calls you BAD NAMES... HANG UP!!!!! and if she calls tell her you wont talk to her until she respects you!!!!!!!!!!! until she gets the point...
Let me first apologize for the sad truth I am about to bring across, it is not meant to hurt you only to make you see what is right in front of you……
Your girlfriend does not want to be with you. She wants you around because you are a nice guy and deep down she knows that you are good for her, with all the presents and the going out. She knows she can play with your emotions and she can make you and break you at her bidding. Don’t do this to yourself man! Her seldom acts of kindness towards you is her guilt; she knows you love her and she feels bad for treating you that way. When you love someone you want everything to be so perfect believe me when I say, take a look around at those around you who are in love, there’s no way this girl would be in love with you and treat you so poorly, women are emotional and when they’re not into you this is the behavior they give I’m a chick I know. When I love someone I’m clingy when they love me they are the ones that seem to cling a tad bit too much. Don’t waste your time dude it’s obvious. Her heart might still be with one of the other guys that hurt her and she hasn’t gotten over him yet. Man up and don’t let her play with your feelings, when u start ignoring her and treating her poorly, you will see such a transformation!
Yes !! my jealousy didn't come out of a sudden
more than one occasion, I found out that she calls her ex's to " end everything "
because her ex's keep calling her over and over. they want her to get back to her
But she never cheated
I think you should check the root of your jealousy. If she has cheated on you or done things to merit jealousy than maybe you should take time off. However, if she has been loyal and never merited your controlling nature than you need to relax on it.
If you both love each other than you can work out diffrences. If i was you i would take some time off. Give her some space and than see how things work out.
Also study her past and history. I remember being clingy when i was young with someone. She had bad relationships with guys who were controlling, so she figured i would be the same.
If there is true love the relationship can be mended. Good luck.