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I don't judge folks but why he only want his **** sucked I am pretty nice looking ?? Help me is he GAY
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It's Your mouth - You get to decide what to do with it.  Don't let YourSelf be "used".  

Different story if this were part of Your "lovemaking" rather than an "expectation" on His part......
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BTW:  This has nothing to do with "gay," but that he is using you for what he wants.  He is receiving and you get nothing.  

Agree with Rosy.  
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Kick his *** to the curb! He can still be a dad to his kids without any sexual favors from you.. Doesn't sound like he's spending much of his time with them anyway. You have a choice in this situation.
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A man showing up on the weekends just wanting oral sex from you is a red flag......you are definitely being used and he probably doesn't think much of you.

I wouldn't allow this to continue.  
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Sounds like hes using you for a booty call!
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I have no idea he just want oral all day every day **** me off that's rude just to show up on the weekends and play DAD it' annoys the hell out of me !!
Time for a change
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973741 tn?1342342773
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It hardly sounds like you have a real relationship from your couple of posts you've made.  I'm not sure what to tell you.  I personally wouldn't allow someone to breeze into town who is the father of my kids and have oral sex "all day" as you say.  I mean, what are the kids doing?

to me, it sounds like he doesn't really want to be intimate with you.  I wouldn't say he is gay as he could get a guy to do that, right?  

good luck
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973741 tn?1342342773
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Well, maybe you understand it isn't an issue but he may not.  If you've already made kids together and he doesn't take much interest in them (as it sounds)---  HE may be fearful of more kids.  

you could try talking to HIM about this.  What does HE say about it?
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I no but oral all day everyday no sex
I wood like sex every now and then ugh
Help me please
Should I find a man to sex with
All this **** sucking is making me mad
He does not oral me
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Pregnancy ain't an issue I have mirena in
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973741 tn?1342342773
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Perhaps he is afraid of pregnancy?
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Maybe he just has a preference for oral?? He's obviously had relations with you more than once since yall have kids?
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All my kids did want is oral head all the time
No sex
Is he gay
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What?
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Sorry I no we all love but is it. Normal for a man want head all day long but no actually sex in vagina
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