Your both have good points and basically just reiterated what I've been feeling, this is drama. I will take this advice, think about it and go from there. Thanks so much for your time and advice.
So basically right now he's in a relationship with the mother of his child and you are the "other woman" that is pulling them apart.
Being in a relationship with you, and "going through a process" to "change" the relationship with his current girlfriend (mother of his child) is what's known as "two timing". He's got both of you and he's kind of pretending he's breaking up with the mother of his child so you'll be there a little longer.
You can do better than this mess. Listen to your parents.
With any luck your boyfriend will choose to stay with the mother of his baby and they'll create a loving home and family for the baby to grow up in.
No i don't want to be a mother to another child this young but its kind of hard to just give him up when we've been through so much already and i don't want us to be based on her but you are right she isn't letting up. If you talk to him, his mind is mad up but he doesn't know how to change things with her without it making problems between them cuz shes the messy type. I do thank you for advice and sometimes I agree that I do deserve better!
Yes he was going back and forth with her so she may be getting signals but he keeps telling me he's going through a process of changing his relationship with her and building his relationship with me so I'm just leaving things up to him because I feel like thats all I can do.
Do you really want to be a mom at 18? to someone else's child? You can't get him without his child, so they come as a package deal. Also, he seems a bit fickle, going back and forth, can't make up his mind. That's not a good quality to have in a significant other. Personally, I think you deserve better, but that is something you need to think long and hard about.
When you say your parents dont like him because of what he did last time what do you mean?has he been back and fourth with his ex?if this is the case then i wouldnt stick around it is hard work when a child is involved but even harder when the ex dont let up,why is she still hanging around she must be getting signals,it is totally up to you but i dont personally think this is going to work.