Midweek Moment 2/2 "Would you Rather"

[specialmom]

So this week I was thinking about that fun party game "would you rather" and thought of a good question for the forum.  You can only do one and really think about it before answering.  

Would you rather . . .  be with a partner for life that rocked your boat in bed-------- I mean awesome, curl your toes great . . . but was a hot head that yelled at you a lot.  

OR . . . would you rather be with a partner for life that was so so in bed (or even not good at all) . . . but treated you like a queen in every other way.  

[lovemykids465]

But would men answer the same way? Well Vance did. But sex is a big issue to most men so ......

[specialmom]

Well, I guess this is a no brainer!!  I'm all for guy number two----------  as I agree that sex is what you make of it.  

There have been so many posts that made me think that some might pick the sexy dude or dudette who was a meanie out of the bedroom but I'm glad that we all have an inner drive to be royalty in our relationships!  

[jenkaye21]

Definitely the second one!

[lovemykids465]

Number two for sure!

[imanaddict]

I'll take the 2nd partner too. I could always teach him how to be a stud in the bedroom! Luckily I already have both qualities in my husband, but have had relationships like the both examples, which makes me even more grateful that I have my husband.

[Vance2335]

Can I be trated like a king instead since I am a guy? LOL.

Treated like a king because sex is what you make of it.

[AHP84]

I'll take the second partner any day...don't even have to think very hard before answering this question, lol.
I've had my fill of being with a guy who yelled at me a lot and had a short temper with everything. AND he wasn't even, as described for this scenario, awesome, curl your toes great. He wasn't bad, but he wasn't spectacular either, that's for sure.
Now I'm with the type of man who does treat me like a queen...and he meets all my expectations in every other way as well. ☺ But even if he didn't, sex just isn't as important to me as feeling like I mean something special to him and am treated like such, because for me personally, how I'm treated is what makes me want to commit to a life partnership/marriage with him.
Iam1butterfly said it best in her last sentence: "Sexual gratification means a lot to me; being treated with respect means more!"

[iam1butterfly]

well, special m...
I've had experience with both types... and then some. But, since the key phrase, here, is a "partner for life," and presumably, I'd be stuck with this man... I'd probably have to go with the dud in bed who treats me like royalty as opposed to the loud-mouthed, hotheaded horn dog. Sexual gratification means a lot to me; being treated with respect means more!