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What do I do after 2 years?

Been with my girlfriend nearly 2 years and was loving every single second.

But a few nights ago I was lying in bed and I was thinking about us and it felt like my body was rejecting the thought of us being together, like it'd had enough. In my head I want to stay with her 'cause I really do love it, but sometimes when I think about us I get a sinking feeling in the bottom of my stomach, I don't know what to do. It's like I can see myself ending it but I don't want to in my head!

Anyone else had this sort of thing happen to them? What did you do? And what happened?

Please help, really upset! :(
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973741 tn?1342342773
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We always run a risk when we leave a relationship in which we loved the other person.  We wonder if we'll find anyone as great or be as happy.  But when you spend a fair amount of time wondering what it would be like with someone else. . .  it is time to find out (unless you are married).  good luck
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684030 tn?1415612323
So, maybe this relationship is "done" ...and, you're just sensing that it's "done."
Happens all the time... to anyone... at any age.
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You are only 18 and have been with her since you were 16. You are in no way ready to settle down to one person. You have not even began to experience life as yet. You know in your head she is a great gal and you dont want to hurt her, yet at the same time you also know that the only way you can live and experience life at your age is to move on and of course you dont want to hurt her yet on the other hand you dont want to spend the next forever after with her at this stage of your life. I think that is normal. And right.
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