What to do?

[teddybears4ever2]

Erik has been working at his new Best Buy since the beginning of April.  There is a young lady there who has the hots for him  She came over to my place a few weeks ago and practically flung herself at him right in front of me.  I have now added her as a friend on facebook, and she has become silent.
It really hurt my feelings that someone would do that in front of me.  I want her to go away, and realize that her actions were not appropriate.  Everyone else that was there noticed.  I would rather not have her back in my apartment again, until she understands what she did was disrespectful.

[brice1967]

Erick needs to handle this.  He needs to let her know that this was inappropriate and it will go no further.  He needs to let her know that you are first in his life and their relationship will remain totally professional.  He has to handle this.... period.

[specialmom]

Hi.  I think your husband needs to be friendly but distant to her.  She is his coworker, so keep the drama from you out of the picture.  YOUR husband is the one that needs to say "hey now, I'm married".  And still be friendly to her but not in the same way he has been.  

Maybe she misread signals from your husband.  She's not the one that is married-------- so she foolishly tried to 'throw herself at him".  Well, he doesn't respond and now it is over.

Don't be mad.  Be flattered she finds your husband attractive.  

I have been in this position before.  My husband took care of it.  I wasn't mad at the girl . . . SHE made a fool of herself.  Not me.  

So, stay out of it and let your husband handle it.  And since they work together----  he just has to let her know that he's not interested in her, he loves you and let's all be friends.  You don't have to really be friends but you do have to be cordial as co workers.  

You'll look silly if you make a big deal about this to anyone---------- let it die away.  good luck

[RainLover71]

Is erik your boyfriend-husband?If so she needs to back off and i would be telling her that and i would certainly not have her as a friend on FB.She has disrespected you most definately and humiliated you aswell.It,s time to tell her how you feel and explain how you feel to erik aswell.All the best.