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I do not know what to do

So my dad pulls my husband aside yesterday and tells him that his fifteen year old step daughter stole some ladies credit card and spent over  500 dollars off of it and now she is leaving the bathroom door open while she is bathing and sitting on the side of the tub shaving her legs and letting him watch her while her mother is in the same room and that she has been crawling into bed with him after her mother goes to my little sister who is also fifteen is staying there as well and I do not feel like he should be there but it is just my word against his and I am not sure how to go about this I want to tell him he is a price if **** bc I am pretty sure they have slept together (step daughter ad him) and that I am taking my sister but I do not know how to go about it my father has also slept with his sister (real sister) and was always "wrestling" with me and my other sister and making us feel weird bc he would always grab our boobs wen we were younger what's should I do?
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Call cps and file an anonymous report saying you over heard a conversation where that was said. Also tell them you know for a fact that there is unacceptable, inappropriate and immoral behavior going on in the home which is child abuse. They will take it from there and you do not have to give your name. If she leaves the door open and he is looking that is disgusting she is only 15... it's gross..
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8654668 tn?1412565128
Calll the cops..im.physically ill hearing this!!!...u know its true...u know he has a history of being this way...those girls need 2 b protected!!!!!.
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Husband not bf
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Take your sister and get out. Then have a private conversation with your mother. Also call out your father (with your boyfriend there). Also talk onth step daughter privately. Then speak to the police and CPS. Then leave! You have done all you can do even if the outcome or the reactions are not what you expected. You at least did all you can
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If I had all your information I'd call and.turn you and them in. This is disgusting
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But you said it happened to YOU and YOUR sister. So you very well know what's going on. Otherwise you wouldn't be concerned about it and posting on here. If it happened to you then it's still happening. Rapists don't change!!
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Wow. You dont seem.to care.too much......or you wouldn't care if drinking was involved or not. That's a **** poor excuse. Maybe they should be in foster care Instead....
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It does not matter if anyone is drinking. You know information. It is the police job to investigate. You just need to do your part and let the police know. But you already know you should do that.
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You need to call the cops and Cps  u can't just let him do this you as a mom to be would not want some one to do this to your kid  so don't just sit back and let it happen to any other kid
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I was saying because I was not told this and my husband was drinking and my father was drinking and I do not know excactly what was said and I hate to go in there file a report to find out that some one was over acting a little bit i think I am going to ask my father about it and if he tells me the same I am calling the cops I have to hear it myself
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Call the freaking cops!!!! Knowing this is going on, why do you continue to let it happen?! As someone who was abused as a child that makes me f*cking sick! You as a mother to be should not let this continue. What if it was YOUR child? DO SOMETHING!!!
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You still know what's happening you.need.to do something to protect those kids.
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No I do not live there I am more responsible and have more than any body in my family they are all a little to involved in drugs and alcohol and I am not into that life
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Why are.you asking what to.do. you already ' know the answer to this. The police need to be involved and if nlt then your responsible to for knowing and allowing this to happen. Your about to be a mother? So what if it was your child. Imagine what they do to children that don't  knoW any better?
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There has to be monitoring by child and family services. This child is in need of therapy and the dad be in jail. I would also look into you and your bf moving out. This doesn't sound healthy for a baby. There are programs that can help you access housing and food.
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I feel as if they are both playing the role along with her mother she is using her body to get her out of trouble their mother taught all of them to be tht way not blaming the 15 year old it is also my fathers fault for being a pig a rapist among many other raunchy things scum bag
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9800385 tn?1406066575
I don't know!! Catch him red handed so she believes you. Move out.
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10558223 tn?1412737756
Let him know that type of behavior is unacceptable and will not be tolerated... if I read this story correctly that's statutory Rape. He needs to be reported.  A 15 year ya old acts like that after repeated abuse. Poor child.
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My real dad said this to my husband and has "wrestled with me and my other little sister in a way that was more like he was fondling us him and the mother are not married and have a relationship where they can have sex with any body they want to I just do not feel that your fifteen year old daughter should be one if them people
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10436685 tn?1417322662
Your real dad said this and did that to you????
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Tell your mom!!def not exceptable
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