:'( </3 need to vent

[RiRi167]

I need to vent, I feel as if I can't talk to anyone. My bf & I share a cell phone & fb due to his infidelity earlier last year. We split for 6 months. Finally I forgave him & came back home. It was a little bit bumpy trying to trust him & everything. We've been back together for the last 9 months & I'm 6 months pregnant with our baby girl. I felt as if I could completely trust him. He was doing everything right & I was unbelievably happy, until today. He pays poker online, (once in a while I play too) & has a bunch of friends. So today I went to play & saw a message from this chick. Her pic was of her naked spreading everything like a *****. He deleted all the previous messages so the only one was the one she sent which said ok. He called me on his break & I started flipping out. Alligator tears & all. He said it's all a misunderstanding & he can explain it all when he gets home, I dont want to see his face I want to punch it. I feel as if I can't trust him. He has an excuse for everything & I'm so tired & hurt. I don't regret my baby girl but I think I regret having her with him even though he is a great father. Am I wrong for feeling this way? What should I do? He wants to talk but I don't think I want to anymore. I feel the need to give up on us & raise her separately even though I wanted us to be a family for years. Sorry it's long

[Nighthawk61]

Sorry to hear that this guy is such a ***** monger. You deserve and will get much much better. Just be more careful next time to screen your men, okay? If you make this into a learning experience, all is not lost. Congratulations on the baby. Have your best life, find the best man, cuz that's your best revenge.

[Chima7]

Wow, that must be done kind of bro code or something because I once busted an ex who posted his real picture and his real profile on a dating site and his lane excuse was he did it to mess with girls who were being mean to his friend that was on there trying to find a date. I was like, Do you think I'm some kind of idiot? I told him he was lost cause and dumped his lame ***. What a stupid excuse! Do these guys really think we are gullible enough to fall for such flimsy lies? Well, apparently yes they do because I've heard that same excuse from other girls who busted their bf on dating sites! What's with boys nowadays? They've become totally lame. I'm really disappointed.

[NeonDreamzz]

You should go solo. Fuxk that ****! Trust me, you love him but do you seriously want to go through your relationship with him constantly feeling like he is doing something behind your back? Sweetie, it's just going to make you sick to your stomach all the time... And it's not healthy for you!!! Or your baby girl. There are decent men out there who would take care of you, and love/respect you. Get out, the sooner you do, the sooner you'll be happy!

[RiRi167]

Now he's saying the person on the other end is probably messing with me. That's the last lie I'm going to hear from his mouth. This momma is going solo. I deserve so much more & my daughter doesn't need to be put through this. Thanks ladies for your advice.

[abbb01]

Id let him give his side of the story but get a back up plan in place for getting on ur own if need be cuz it definitely seems something is not right if the message with the pic said "ok" like it was asked for. Im sorry ur dealing with this but women are able to do it on their own every day and u deserve to be not only loved but respected and be able to trust who u share ur life with

[RiRi167]

Thanks for the advice. I'm going to let him explain when he gets home. I want this to be a big misunderstanding. God I hope he really changed, I love this man with all my heart.

[PBaby1]

Maybe he really has changed. If he hasn't given you any reason in the last 9 months before today then let him explain, just be on guard. Give him a shot but don't fall for something that you know is a lie