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Do you get mad if ur bf/husband watches porn?
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8537342 tn?1403341983
In my relationship we have a no porn rule but we talk about watching it together, he hasn't deleted anything off his phone so he might still be watching it while I don't know but he works so late and goes to bed early he just doesn't get the time to so I kind of trust that he isn't still watching it, if he wants to be turned on from watching a girl he can watch the videos I send him or he can watch the ones we take of us together, if he wants to watch it to "experiment" he can ask me to do whatever he's watching, ATM (tmi) we're trying out how far down I can go when giving head or when he's on top I'll start rubbing him, so obviously I have no boundaries why would he need to watch porn we're kinky enough and I don't watch it
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The thing that would bother me is of he wanted to watch it before sex every time. Cause then I would feel like he need the porn to turn him on but he says he doesn't need it to turn him on cause just him rubbing my big booty ( his words) turns him on.
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Ohhh I don't get mad I was just curious cause my friend was telling me she hates when her husband watches it and I'm like really I didn't know that really would bother someone. Its normal and I would rather him watch porn then cheat
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I would watch it with him lol the first time i watched it with him i think he was turned on that i was really watching it with him and am very confident about knowing i can please him now even though im about to be 9 months pregnant even though idc if he watches porn he wants pics or videos of me to masterbate to when hes away working instead of porn  
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I wouldn't mind because at least i know he wont cheat, i wouldn't watch it with him, i rather him watch it then going off out looking for a woman, so what if they get a bit horney at least u know he cant get off with the girl in the porn film or show lol so be happy thats his not cheating and dont have the decency to go behind ur back :-) if u stop him he could wonder off too pubs and nite clubs for one nite stand so leave him off its completely harmless and in their nature really lol x
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Yes. Id get mad. You want it. Ill do it. Dont look at other girls. But thats just me.. lol.
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^^ I agree its not like he will ever meet them or talk to them or hell even see them other then through a screen ....plus its not like he's getting it for himself and no one else , thousands of men are looking at the same pair of boobies..were as when we have sexual instances its special because I'm only his and he's only mine no one else gets to see or watch....I'd be upset if it took over our sex life and he never wanted to be with me but when I'm not in to mood or don't want to help out to get him off then go for it
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Not at all, my hubby and I are pretty open about stuff like that and I accept that sometimes he needs to feel like he's getting "variety" LOL
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Nope it doesn't bother me.
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I hate it because it always leads to talking to some girl and sending pictures back and forth. I had to turn to my pastor for help and in my religion it is considered cheating, so i had to put my foot down and told him to choose. We still have a few issues to work out but i feel much better and he isnt so moody all the time anymore.
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lol
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8004667 tn?1408302108
I made my man stop because i feel like hes trying to get horny off other women and when me and him have sex i dont wanna feel like hes thinking of a girl in the video instead of me .. but idk
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Yea, i know I'm selfish but I mainly get upset bc there's usually a reason I don't give him none& I'm kinda want him to suffer lol
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Only when it was behind my back I got mad but when its together and were about to well ya know then its a huge turn on to watch him..everyone watches it its when people lie and hide it is when people get mad
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Nope I'd rather him watch porn then cheat ...
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It's weird but I got over it
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9065649 tn?1418258207
I know its stupid.. but i used to only cause i never felt i was good enough for him and whatnot... but hes been telling me for years he watches it to learn new things and its ture i cant tell you how much stuff weve tried now were going on 6 years gonna have 2 children. And wete getting married in 4months!♥
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My partner and i watch it together but he does masturbate still as im not all sex atm ... im not angry
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Let him know the way you feel though. Be honest.
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No It is normal for men to want to watch that.  Just let him know he needs to pay extra attention to you to ward off jealousy.
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