i need help with this please!!

[roro07]

'm so tired of this guy! He will not leave me alone and it's really irking my nerves. He comes over all three time to see my brothers all the time, because he's friends with them. He'll say hey to me and I will say hey back. He's constantly bothering me calling me a name he made up. Always wanting a handshake or to bother me. Get always say I'm telling your mom your being mean to me. I said so tell her she can't do anything to me. So today, he tells my mom that i was being mean. When he walked through the door today I didn't speak to him. Therm he walks to my brother room. Then he says oh you're not going. The only thing I say is hey. Then he tells my mom I'm mean to VN him told my mom i spoke to him already. He was like why are you so rude. I said it's not being mean it's hey and bye. He said that is rude. I said no it's not it's called being bold.I said iit's hey and bye. I don't need to hold a conversation with you. He said I was being mean. He tired to play it off with my brothers.. I know when a guy is hitting on me. He has walked in my room once without my consent. Saying you need to clean my room. I told him to get out of my room. He always asking for my phone. I always say no. He said when he invite a female over he's up front with them it's only sex. He said if they don't have respect for themselves he doesn't have respect for them. It has gone beyond ridiculous. He has also tried talking to my cousin and she said boy stop. She's happily in a relationship. Help me!! How can I get him to leave me alone.!!? He's annoying! I cannot stand him! And my brothers won't do anything about it!!

[Chima7]

It appears that you're probably a teenager. At that age, boys always tease girls that they like because... Well actually I don't know why they do it. But boys do that kind of stupid stuff all the time. Have you tried kind of turning it around back on him? Like for instance when he keeps teasing you, tease him right back by trying to embarrass him. Say something like, "I know you're totally in love with me and my cousin but as I told you before youre not good enough for us." Or say, "Ooooh you're in loooove! That's so cute, just like a little puppy dog! Go fetch!" Or something. Think of ways to turn it around on him and give him a taste of his own medicine. Since your brothers won't help you ( which is lame because they should) then you need to fight back. I think with a little boy like him, if you embarrass him enough he will leave you alone.

Unfortunately boys don't listen to reason at that age so it's not really worth it to try talking to him about it. Try finding ways to laugh at him instead of getting mad. He wants you to get mad and fight back but if you find ways to laugh at him instead I really think he will stop.

[roro07]

I'm 25. I'm not a teenager. I just want him to leave me alone. It makes no sense to bother someone everyday. Thanks special mom and China 7. It's getting ridiculous.

[specialmom]

The other option is---  at 25---  to get your own place.  Then you can invite over whomever you would like.  good luck

[nursegirl6572]

The other option is---  at 25---  to get your own place.  Then you can invite over whomever you would like.  good luck .

Definitely.

[roro07]

I'm leaving for basic training. No point in getting my own place.

[specialmom]

Well, problem solved then!  Fantastic.  Good luck to you