kicked me out...

[godsgift24]

So yesterday I explained how my boyfriend just annoys me and I tell him it's the hormones.. today was my day off since I work.night shift... and I was sleeping and basically later on an argument starts... he kicks me out.. so I moved back with my mom.  Before I Packed He Goes Out To Ride His Bicycle With His 14 Year Old sSister.  . Cause it relieves stress.. took him 2 hrs to ask where I am and to.receive calls. I ignore them of course.. then I'm on instagram and while I'm crying my eyes out he's out with his cousin and cousins friends drinking.. acting single basically.. ignoring my calls and texts.. why doesn't he care about me and the baby :( I feel like he isnt. Excited like I am....

I just feel like I don't matter anymore

[annikins95]

Well you cannot get upset at us when we make statements and we do not know the full story because you do not include the full story honey. Yes hitting you is wrong yes kicking you out while you are pregnant is wrong. But 26 is still counted as young especially for men who mature at a different rate than us.

[TTinKKerBBell]

I see so MANY stories like this on this forum.

WE (women) need to make Better, more Mature Decisions about who WE are going to make Babies with.  It  takes TWO to make these Babies and often WE are not making wise decisions.   The writing is most usually on the wall but We choose to ignore very important clues (Red Flags).  We should be more discerning about who We  are going to have sex with 'cuz sex IS how We get these Babies -  We need to give OurSelves more TIME to make good Selections/Decisions.  Love IS a choice and We should choose well.  It takes TIME to KNOW a persons' Character.  Men will have sex if it's made available - and while We love sex too, Our concern should to be to build Our nest(s) with Reliable Men who will be good Husbands and Fathers.  Babies like very much to grow up in a happy home with Mommy AND Daddy both present..........just saying

[yanelibelli]

Don't stress about it. My baby daddy kicked me out at 16 weeks and it was really hard to find a place to live, I'm 24 weeks 6 days and till this day he hasn't contact me, I'm over it, you don't need a man to raise your child, specially a man that thinks he can come and leave whenever he wants. Be strong anfd think about how much your baby needs you 100% in every way. Just think about your baby and of you're sad they're sad too. Be happy :) at the wnd you'll have your baby and don't need him, its okay you're not alone in things like this. Go to counseling or groups ^-^ it helps and let the stress out and stay happy for your baby :) congratulations with your baby :) stay strong ♡

[duraqka]

Girl let me tell you. I passed through the same thing wen i has 2 months pregnant, kicked me out, went back with mom, instagram & facebook pictures of him drinking and smoking i was hurt but guess what i changed my number didnt reach out to him at all for months. Had to go to ER ended finding out i was gonna face miscarriage if i didnt do bed rest, yet they did first time sono and they surprised me with the news im having twins boy and a girl thats why i was high risk. So i told my sister and fam the news, she calls my baby daddy they talk she tells him the news and ever since then all we been doing is working on our relationship. Now he text me every 5 minutes lol ever since that day. Give it time trust is gonna hurt at the beggining but it will be wortg it. For now just think about the baby

[GxoK]

Oh, I will. I can guarantee that.  And I hope that when you have time to sit and really think about your situation and you re-read your post, you realize that you are strong enough to be without that guy.  Like I said, I was in your same situation with a really bad guy.  I truly hope you don't make the same mistake I did, and go back, thinking he'll change and suddenly care.  I hope you have the will to stay away and the resolution to know that you alone, are better for your child than you dealing with the baby's father and hating your life.  Bc, as soon as he gets it through his head that you don't need him, he's going to put on the best act in human history.  Don't fall for it.  You'll be better off.  And even though I know you were being a total smart-*ss, it doesn't bother me and I hope you have a nice day too.

[godsgift24]

@GxoK I read it.. but if you can't read that I wasn't snapping, it's the way you read it.. if you knew me as a person you would know no attitude was given to anyone on here .. I know he's my enemy . I never said you were .. OK , that settles it . Have a nice day ! :)