SHOCKED

[KIMBERLY98]

WOW, I THOUGHT THIS SIGHT WAS SUPPOSED TO BE SUPPORTIVE AND HELPFUL, NOT RUDE AND JUDGEMENTAL!  

[jo929]

I also thought i was giving advice to a young girl, and missed the part about him enjoying hurtimg you< i really thought everyone tried to help you.   luck  jo

[RockRose]

Kimberly,  I'm shocked too.  I just went and looked at your profile,  and from your picture you're older than I am.

I was trying to give you advice from kind of an older woman,  based on your post that made you look about 19.  

What are you doing with some guy who wants to hurt you?  

[mayflowers]

You're post about the penis size/pain issue was actually a little disturbing.  He likes it when he hurts you? Really Kim, that's not a good thing.  

It doesn't sound like you have a good time when having sex.  It's all about technique and frankly, if your BF doesn't know good technique, it's going to be hard for us to describe in detail what he should do.  One thing that comes to mind  is to have him take longer, slowers strokes.   However, he's  the one who has to do this, there's nothing you can really do.

We don't want you to be hurt all the time, really that's not anyone's intention.  I think you need to see a real dr. and get some advice from a physician.  Or maybe try the sexual health forum.  Lots of people with experience over there.

[JJety]

hahahaha - It makes me think of the movie office space when the door-to-door magazine salesman comes to the apartment...

"Good evening Sir, my name is Steve. I come from a rough area. I used to be addicted to crack but now I am off it and trying to stay clean. That is why I am selling magazine subscriptions."

Except insert "selling Grade A Top Choice Meat" in there.

lol!

[Agiesmom]

Look under the "VERY LARGE PENIS" thread.  Apparently her heroin-addict, door-to-door meat selling boyfriend with a large penis gets off on hurting her during sex.  She obviously didn't like the advice she received.

Here's the one recent thread:
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/show/504858

(Oh, and she's not screaming at us by writing in all caps--that's just how she always types.)

[msniki412]

Did i miss something?

[JJety]

Sometimes people who need help benefit more from a good slap of reality, which they perceive as rude or judgemental.  

It's not helpful to stroke someone's ego or paint a pretty picture when things are clearly wrong and the person needs to make some serious changes in their lives.  That's not help, that's being an enabler.